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    igotlaidonce is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default want to turn old friend into LTR, lives 320 miles away

    Details in 2 minutes (had to re-create thread).

    Trying to put in enough detail as relevant (there's quite a bit).

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    igotlaidonce is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: want to turn old friend into LTR, lives 320 miles away

    OK so here's the story.

    Just over 2 years ago I met this (super hot) girl at a concert of a band we both love.
    She was with 2 friends and I got them all down to floor seating.
    From the first moment of eye con.tact it was clear it was on, and we spent most of the night making out.

    I got her number, she found me on facebook, we kept in touch (even though we live 5.5 hours away).

    Since then, I have seen/run into/hung out with her probably 20-ish times altogether.
    We both go to LOTS of shows/cam.ping events (often out of our respective states) and love a lot of the same bands.
    Every time I see her I get a giant hug and the most positive energy one could hope for (both from her and her social circle).

    Usually women don't intimidate me and I have girls nearby who I see casually. She is aware of how sexual a person I am (seen me with girls) and we have talked about some of our experiences with each other lightheartedly. This girl, however is giving me a pretty serious case of one-itis, but luckily she doesn't seem to know I have it. I had given up on her over a year ago but recent events have made her the central thought in my head for most of any given day.

    She began dating a guy a few months after that first meeting and he was her BF for over a year on and off. They broke up around a month ago, a few days before I last saw her (at a show).
    Following that interaction I missed seeing her on 2 occasions (due to irrelevant circumstances, passing through the same city etc..).
    She called/texted me a lot to try and see me and encouraged me to go see a show (same band and venue as first meeting) with her but I didn't make the trip. She even sent me a text saying "tonigh.t was a blast, really wish you were here ". This was 2 weeks ago.

    Even more recently (days ago), she began a conversation with me online that went like this:

    (her)
    i miss [ex-BF's name]i guess thats norm.al rig.ht? i gotta remember why i broke it off in the firs.t place.

    (me)
    it's normal

    (her)
    yeah

    (me)
    go get l.aid
    hahaha
    sorry rud.e
    relations.hips are roug.h

    (her)
    ha idk its weird i don't want anyone else really lol (besides you haha ) <--------(in my head: WHAT?!)
    i wanna have sex with him ...its always fun with an ex <---------(not the best thing to tell me next)

    (me)
    yeah se.x with an ex is fun when it happens
    but 5 min.s after not so much
    lets just run of.f

    (her)
    yeah that sounds nice

    We talk about going on road.trips and moving away a lot (not necessarily with each other though sometimes). Were 22-23. I finished college last month and she's got another half year I think.
    I'm in the process of trying to get a job where I live, but I want to move far eventually (maybe this year) and I want to get her to come with me. She wants to move too, I know this.
    I'm trying to take this one step at a time, but because of that conversation, I am convinced I need to act fast.

    What do you think? Is speed a priority before she meets another guy/gets back with her ex?
    Is it try-hard to make the drive to see her? I got invited by her to meet halfway for a show in 2 weeks. Should I go? (its for a band she knows I'm not crazy about)
    I don't want to scare her off, but there is clearly still attraction and we are friends so we are VERY comfortable around each other.
    Should I convince her to visit my city? I have a band and hopefully soon a job here (interviews all week), I wouldn't mind staying for a bit, but I really want this girl to be within reach for the long term.

    At this point, she likes me (I think), her friends like me, and I'm CRAZY about her.

    Advice/suggestions/questions for clarity welcome. I have not spoken to this girl since the conversation online minus her asking if I wanna see this other band in 2 weeks.

    Biggest question: how often should I talk to her/should I suggest plans? Seems counterproductive without follow-thorough.


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