Re: Oneitis makes out with another guy! Should I feel shit?
Dont worry old boy! but remember taht there is more then one guy out there too! one that isnt afraid to push when he should push.
by all means play it safe in unfamilier territory but dont be surprised if someone that was willing to take the chance got their before you.
man A flirts with girl, girl C is interested and wants to kiss,
man A abit unsure calls his fake time constraint and wanders off leaving her in a good place but still leaving her all the same
man B(radders) flirts with girl, girl C is interested and wants to kiss
man B takes the chance and goes to kiss her, BANG bang bang
you'll do fine if you get IOI's escelate to kino and mild sexual tension
you still get IOI's kiss that girl!
here are some nice little wayst o gauge if shes ready
1: if you lean in, she will either stay where she is, or lean in too(you can pretend your just leaning or takeing dirt of her shoulder or waving who cares) - this is becasue she no longer minds you being in her personal space, and prephaps wants you there
2:did you shake her hand? shake it, bodly language is sucha tell, especialy if they cant control it, the feet are the best way to tell, does she step away? hold her ground? does she step in? she steppd it? kiss her!
3:centers her body on you, moves in close, brushes her haira way from her mouth, puckers her lips, cares more about her physical appearnce infront of you, she wants to look good for when you kiss her face off! HA!
little tips im sure you can work on. good luck old boy! let me know how it goes
"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
responsive to change." Charles Darwin