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    PUA_Trainee is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I think i messed up...

    So there's this girl i've been seeing around campus last year. i knew i wanted something, but i never approached her. i kinda just let it go and just moved on. i ran into this same girl at a house party (luckily) and i knew i had to approach her. I went up to her and said that i recognize her (or something like that), and in our drunken conversation, she said that "we met before," which i'm taking it as "i've seen you around campus." She then asked if I had an iPhone (which i do), and proceeded to put her number into my phone. That was pretty much it for the night.

    This is where it gets bad (i cringe everytime i think about it).

    I texted her the next afternoon saying "Hey captain black out! This is Rob. idk if you remember but you put your number in my phone so i just wanted to say hi!" Just as I expected (right after i sent the text), i got no response. Embarrassing, I know . I'm just wondering if there is any way I can fix this. I don't think texting her again is a good idea, or a facebook add. I'm not really sure who our mutual friends are, I don't really know anything about her (except her name), and I hardly ever run into her. I need help from the experts, what should I do? I think my only option is to wait and hopefully run into her again, but that just might not happen. Thanks guys!

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    Fratstar is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I think i messed up...

    You should have left out the "I don't know if you remember me" part because obviously she should remember you.. you're the man right?? It shows a lower sense of self worth when you phrase things in that way. But onto the issue at hand. She is expecting you to be like every other guy and blow up her phone with more messages even after she hasn't replied to the first.

    My suggestion is to put this chick on the backburner for now and wait for the next time she text's you or you run into each other at school / party.

    Whatever you do, don't say anything about her not texting you back. It shows that you care too much.

    Play it out next time you guys see each other and just have fun. If you don't make this chick a big deal to you, then the odds of getting the lay will be in your favor.

    FS

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    Gigantor is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I think i messed up...

    Agree with Fratstar...."if you remember me" is a DLV. Same rules apply for phone game...don't ever say shit like, "Hey, this is Brian....we met at ______, I don't know if you remember me or not but it was cool meeting you."

    You'll probably run into her again, just play it off...start back with a DHV story and go from there.


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