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    Joefo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post I'm so lost about this right now

    This actually happen to me at the gym today...this girl kept staring at me and she made it really obvious, to the point were i was uncomfortable. When i looked back at her we made EC and i smiled and went about my business. Then, I walked passed her again and she kept staring at me like she wanted to bite my dick off or something but at the same-time I was getting the vibe that she really had no interest and she was just trying to get some validation or if I approached I would have given her the upper hand...was she interested or was i right? Also, what could i have done? I'm not the best when it comes to women, thats for sure lol but, I'm 22 and im very good looking and I always find this happening to me.

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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    I'm no expert but I would like to think I woulda tried to have fun with it, and told her something corny like, "Hey, why don't you take a picture, it lasts longer." in a joking tone.

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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    That's awesome...why didn't I think of that lol. I'm going to do that to every girl that does that from know on!

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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    I'm learning a lot from these forums, and I feel I'm still making my transition from AFC to PUA, but if there's one thing I learned, it is KEEP IT FUN!

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    Joefo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    I always see things about afc, what is it? I really want to get into this stuff what's the best way to go about it?

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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    Here's the thing, she's INTERESTED in you. You can skip the opener and DHV stories and go straight into qualification (that's how you keep the upper hand even if she's looking for validation). The only thing at this point you need to use to start a conversation is, "Hey, how are you?" You're going to be surprised at how easily she's going to start talking to you...

    Her: Blah Blah Blah,
    You: "Cool, you seem like an interesting girl, what's your story?" From this point make her earn your IOI's.

    That's it....make sense?

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    Joefo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    Yes, but when do I know when to give her the IOIs and what ones to give? Does it matter what ones I give? And alos, I know nothing about qualification..I'm very green.

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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    Here's my question to you: do you know what you want?

    Is it just getting laid a lot or do you eventually want a girlfriend? There's nothing wrong with either.

    I'm about being genuine, I did the whole lying thing to get laid and truth be told it's a LOT of fun in the beginning BUT it gets old real quick.

    Sit and ask yourself what are the kind of qualities you want from a girl. Do you want someone adventurous, who likes to travel? Do you want a girl who's social and outgoing or more laid back and likes to chill at home? Do you want a girl who has the same interests as you: music, politics, sports, etc. These are all qualifiers and it's up to you to figure out which ones you like and dislike.

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    Joefo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    Ahhhh, I see what your saying now. Thanks a lot...I have one more question. In the long run I would like a good girl but right now ill take a good lay every now and then..would a girl that demonstrates that kind of behavor, like the one that eye fucked me at the gym, be a loyal girl or do you think that type of girl would be a slut, or is that something you can't distinguish from something like that?

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    Default Re: I'm so lost about this right now

    LOL you never know. The old saying goes, "Don't judge a book by it's cover." I tend to agree with this, I've dated girls who looked like they were the "goodie two shoes" type and later found out (much to my surprise) that they were freaky as hell in bed.

    I don't expect loyalty nor do I ever give the impression that I'm going to be either in the beginning. Neither one of us has earned that yet. It's all about managing expectations, both hers and yours. Don't expect either of you to be loyal at the start. I'm always straight forward, "I'm not really looking for a relationship and I AM dating right now, but that doesn't mean I can't change my mind either if the right girl comes along." Learned that one the hard way by trying to disguise it and eventually blowing up in my face.

    If your long term goal is getting a gf, then start doing things that are genuine in the beginning. It's creating good habits because let me tell you there is a truly dark path that you can head down that there's no coming back from. Good news is you'll still get laid consistently if you do


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