Argh! I have been on 3 snake eyes dates in a row with chicks from OK Cupid who look hot from their 5 year old photos and list their bodies as fit - but show up + 25 to +50 pounds fatter than their pics.

So the question is, once I have a chick ready to hook up who looks trim in her pics, how do I ask her are you fat without turning her off (in case she's still actually thin)?