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    Natural1984 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Don't want to get blown off after girl gets off work. Advice?

    So last night I set up getting drinks with a girl after she gets off of work at 10 (she's a waitress). This sounds good so far but I failed to hit her up before she started her shift at 5 to ensure our plans. I sent her a text about work and am waiting to hear back once she goes on break, but this is what I'm concerned about:

    I've set up going out with a girl after a shift as a waitress and sometimes it's gone through and other times it hasn't. I don't know if any of you can relate to this, but when it hasn't, they given me the reasons such as "I'm tired" or "I just feel like relaxing at home." This is definitely understandable, but (assuming she gets back to me in the future) is there anything I could say to convince her otherwise? Or some kind of quick remark that would make her make the effort to go out instead of going home? Thanks, Natural

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    Default Re: Don't want to get blown off after girl gets off work. Advice?

    Quote Originally Posted by Natural1984 View Post
    So last night I set up getting drinks with a girl after she gets off of work at 10 (she's a waitress). This sounds good so far but I failed to hit her up before she started her shift at 5 to ensure our plans. I sent her a text about work and am waiting to hear back once she goes on break, but this is what I'm concerned about:

    I've set up going out with a girl after a shift as a waitress and sometimes it's gone through and other times it hasn't. I don't know if any of you can relate to this, but when it hasn't, they given me the reasons such as "I'm tired" or "I just feel like relaxing at home." This is definitely understandable, but (assuming she gets back to me in the future) is there anything I could say to convince her otherwise? Or some kind of quick remark that would make her make the effort to go out instead of going home? Thanks, Natural


    It's called flaking. To avoid flaking the best thing you can do its not to plan any dates. Just pass by and invite her to a drink. If she works at a restaurant then pass by her restaurant, say hi, invite her to a drink or to eat something there at her restaurant. Hope this helps.


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