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    Default Conversations getting slow help?

    So I been texting this girl on and off for a bit now she throws a lot of IOIs out there but conversations getting slow. We regularly go on nights out but we're going out this week just us two, and tonight I asked her what she was doing twice in the space of 5 texts this might be seen as someone who can't hold an interesting conversation. She didn't text back and might flake this week any tips, help, or advances would be appreciated.
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    Default Re: Conversations getting slow help?

    Absolutely no help guys? This is such a stupid mistake I know need some insight .
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    Default Re: Conversations getting slow help?

    You asked her twice in the span of 5 texts what she was doing? That's not a lack of conversation skills, that's a lack of PRESENCE which is a major DLV.

    Being present is huge for women; you're listening to her, you're aware of what's going on and you're paying attention. We all know that person who just talks and talks and talks and never listens and eventually you end up wanting to avoid them completely. That's because they're NOT PRESENT.

    My advice, regardless of text or phone or in person; you were born with two ears and one mouth. Listen twice as much as you talk (once you're in comfort anyways) and REMEMBER what's been said.

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    Default Re: Conversations getting slow help?

    You need to check out Bill Preston's The Vibe for exactly what to say after the opener!

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    Default Re: Conversations getting slow help?

    Wow, I posted a link to my blog that doesn't promote or sell any products and my post gets edited and blocked....wasn't trying to sell anything to anyone...
    Last edited by Gigantor1; 01-23-2012 at 06:45 PM.

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    Default Re: Conversations getting slow help?

    youre both probably not clicking well. sometimes that "abyss" like neil strauss mentioned in The Manble, where he and the girl he was going for had a helluvan ice to break.


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