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    Default I feel unworthy

    When thinking about approaching a woman I feel like I have nothing to offer, so whatís the point.

    I feel really stuck.

    Iím new to the whole PUA thing, I havenít read any books or done a bootcamp. Maybe I should do that before I made this post but I just thought Iíd through it out there.

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: I feel unworthy

    Nothing to offer..? really?

    No fun interesting conversation? no amazing sexual encounters you can provide? You must have something to offer surely. Maybe you're rich? lol.

    I am sure if you think about it objectively you can find value in yourself.

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    Default Re: I feel unworthy

    Scoring a girl is like scoring a job. First take an inventory of your good points and what you'd like to improve and also list what you don't have but want to have. Then get to work. Set realistic and reachable goals.

    Example: 1) problem - I mostly wear jeans, tees and Vans, but it makes me look sloppy. 2) I will wear clean fashionable jeans, button shirts w/tie in the evenings and classy but casual leather loofers (well buffed). NO White Socks!

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    Default Re: I feel unworthy

    You need to improve the other areas of your life that you're unhappy with. Getting a hot chick isn't going to solve all your problems and woes. When I started improving my life like getting in shape, pursuing my passions and hobbies, and spending more time with friends and family I started feeling more content and like I finally had self-worth. That gave me self-confidence to be myself and approach more hot chicks because I knew I wasn't a self-loathing loser anymore and had something to bring to the table.

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    Default Re: I feel unworthy

    It is awesome that you realized that you have nothing to offer. Too many people do not realize that and say things like, "I need to get this HB9. By the way, I'm morbidly obese, have no job, no car, no money, live in my mom's basement, and my only friend lives in a glass tank and I feed him crickets. What's the right thing to say to get her to love me?" Realizing this is BS is perfect! So obviously, go for self-improvement. Go the the gym, change your attitude, get nice clothes, get your life on track. First make yourself a cool person. Then, with your new self, get a bunch of cool friends. Now, (assuming you have a job, apartment, car, etc...) you're better equipped to get the job done. When you have these basic things down, then worry about attracting girls. By the time you are significantly improved, you may find that women are now naturally attracted to you!

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    Default Re: I feel unworthy

    I think you need to give us more than just "I have nothing to offer" Explain your situation and let us be the deciders of that. I find it very hard to believe you have nothing to offer, in fact having nothing to offer is just the same as saying I have nothing to loose! what you have to offer will never be quantified in assets or money, your personality is what you offer a woman, excitement, sporadic decisions, fun and a little bit of danger! When you have nothing to loose these things become you! Your lucky really man, this is your first brick in the new awesome SUPER you that your going to build! Make it count and give us the bigger picture!

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