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View Poll Results: What is going through her mind???

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    Default i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRET IT

    There is this girl in my human sexuality class, i swear she stares at me when im not looking and ofcourse i do this right back at her haha. So the first three times we had class, me and chick have been eye farking like crazy. Today (end of our third class while we were walking out the door)
    I was lucky that she was behind me and I opened the door for her. Then we walked down about three stairs and looking like a fool I engaged in conversation.....uh oh!

    Me: Hey, so what are you doing your project on? (were doing projects over a topic in sexuality. Im doing threesomes and last week when we were deciding I even had my prof tell the class that I would like to do my project with a partner for broader opinions and outlooks and I know she heard that)
    Her: I dont know I havent decided yet (she was smiling and kinda blushing i think, mos def wasnt acting like a bitch or acting like she was weirded out, most likely the shy type but shes gotta tatoo on back so idk)
    Me: o...ok (than in anticipation i started assuming she was gonna continue the convo like maybe ask me what I was going to do my project on?!)
    Her and I keep walking for about three seconds in this horrible awkward silence and bam she pulls out the phone and pretends to start texting...I START HUMMING...we walk dif ways (usually we walk in the same direction but since it was getting so farking weird i just walked right when she walked left)
    THE END. Yea i know this sounds like the beginning to some really corny hollywood chick flick where it starts out really bad and awkward (in a cute way as a stupid woman would put it) but I know life isnt the movies. Am I screwed or is there a chance for redemption next class? Is it time to move on or she likes me and feels very similar to the way im feeling now (which may not be a bad thing at all)?!?!? Break it down and be as harsh as you can on me this isnt my first rodeo.

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    Or... she is trying to get you to chase her when really you should just be cool and ignore her for a while.

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    let her come to me (if she does)? like i guess for any pua or afc, one of worst feelings in your stomach is thinking you missed an opportunity or that its too late. I cant help but battle with those emotions, especially in situations such as these.

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    Well, I don't consider myself an expert in these matters (yet) but it seems to me that if you chase her you risk coming across as a needy AFC. Even if you get her attention she then knows she has the power and you'll come running. Seems like only way to play it is waiting game. Got a similar waiting game going on this week myself, decided I don't care (even though I do a little bit) and next weekend is another weekend

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    First of all, it seems like you don't really know her well. Maybe just the duration of the class? Either way, I'd say you're going about this the wrong way. You initiated the conversation so waiting for her to start leading after that is silly. Once you start, you need to keep going even if you are talking to yourself. In my opinion, trying to ignore her wont work since you guys don't know each other and you don't seem to have any built up rapport.

    First step would be to, during the next class ask her again about her project "Have you decided yet?" and depending on her answer ask if she wants to work with you since you're still looking for a partner. That would give you plenty of interaction to become close. And then you could try the ignore method if you so choose. Also, never listen to her problems (of her social life [sam did this, my ex was so blah])...easiest path to friendzone. Make sure all of your conversations are of non-person related aside from celebrities and news and whatever. And always keep it happy. She should never get a negative vibe from you.

    Good luck. Obviously, I'm no expert but hopefully this helps.

    Also, imagination is a tricky thing, go with what you see and hear directly. Imagining that she's watching you is weird. =P

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    Ah, Human Sexuality in college. I failed that class on purpose so I could take it, again.

    Here's what I would do:
    Help her find a topic, give her a book on related topic (read the book) and tell her you had two ideas for the project, but wanted to learn about others' experienes with something you hadn't already read about.

    Should open the door to plenty of opportunities. I would plan on her already having a topic and be very careful what topic you choose to recommend for her.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    I see what you guys are saying, I was planning to ask her straight up to see if she wants to be my partner on this project especially if she mentions to me that she still doesnt have a project topic in mind (like what kingdragon was saying). Hopefully I can see her before class outside in the hallway, if not Ill try to make it so that we end up walking out together at least. The last thing i would want to happen is I miss my opportunity to talk to her and chicken out! haha Tomorrow we have class again so im really glad you guys gave me some wise input today. Nik I like your idea but she doesnt sit that close to me where I can talk to her during class. Its always after class that I find her walking right behind me and the first time was soooo awkward I just feel like suggesting her topics would mislead her into thinking I'm not interested in wanting her to be my partner (id rather get rejected and know for sure, i feel like by presenting her topics she may enjoy im almost pushing here away from the very idea on my mind of getting her to be my partner) I just get this vibe that there is some attraction but maybe it is just the eye of the beholder? I will mos def report back tomorrow and fill you guys in. Wish me good luck, have some tissues and bowl of ice cream if i screw this one up again like i did the other day jkjkjk haha

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    i manned up, asked her if she found a project then offered her to be my partner, she is mos def the shy type but she said yes!! We THEN introduced ourselves after finally deciding to be partners and she was mos def giving me nervous laughs which allowed me to be my nervous goober self to relax a little (especially after she said yes) I told her we can exchange numbers next time. I want to take it really slow and since we just met there is no need to get the number right away. I like how this is building up (first it was just awkward, then i followed up the next time asking her to be my partner, next class we can exchange numbers) I didnt want to do what alot of guys do and get the digits right away, this creates some ease (incase i put her on the spot and she freaked out and said yes, this way next week when i ask for her number she has the opportunity to say no IN CASE she was creeped out but I doubt it). I get the feeling she mirrors me too, I wore shades last time, she wore shades this time, I sit a certain way and after a few moments i glance over to see her mirror me (over analyzing??)

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    Please... don't over analyze it... You will save yourself a very large headache if you just forget about the small details.

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    Default Re: i swear she was into me, by the end of our 3rd class i manned up, REGRE

    I think that in her head the same movie is playing out. Sexuality class lol - lots of material to use in conversations I'm sure. The deck is pretty stacked in your favour I think.

    Keep taking the necessary steps. Arrange study dates. Get to know her. Tell her what you want her to know about you. Send her some fun texts. Find a reason to meet up in the evening. Go for a walk with her. Kiss her.


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