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    Default Help? What Happened?

    Ok, so I met this chick.. Got the number, we talked on the phone the next night.. She said the way I talk was really ' cute ' we hung up, she immediately texted me 5-10 minutes later, just small chit-chat for a while I gave some sweet compliments, I told her something along the lines: ' I could compliment you all night, but I'm sure you get tired of them. ' And she said: ' Not when there from people I like. ' ( She's a Model and get's alot of that. ) I replied: You like me? ' She said: ' Mhmm. ' I said: Well I'm very interested in you myself. ' I had asked if I could get the honor of another call tomorrow, she replied saying she wanted to talk anyways.. Later after chit chating she said she was getting ' Tired ' but didn't wanna stop texting me etc etc Eventually gave into fatigue and told me Goodnight, blah blah she wished she could stay up. Now after all that she wont text me? -__- well she does but it's never long... I said Hi yesterday, she said ' Yo ' and that was it? >.< And: Ashley! ' -- ' Hey. ' Whacha doing up so late? ^-^ ' About a hour later; Awies, I'm assuming you fell sleepy? Well nighty night angel. ' I didn't fall asleep. i: ' Then I texted back nothing and got a ' Goodmorning ' text.. Repliied and nothing back? >.< And I've just texted her: ' What kinda Mischief are you causing today? ' Nothing.. I'm kinda bumfelled by what's happened seemed everything was fine? What could I do to fix this? Any Ideas? I'm very interested in this lady.

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    Default Re: Help? What Happened?

    You portrayed way too much interest, classic afc move. Back off, space out your texts, don't text her for a day, make her initiate the conversation and make her chase you

    Don't be always super available to her, have other things going on even of you don't

    You show too much availability and you're showing her that she's better than you and not something she's gonna have to work for

    This is a related post, somewhat, if you wanna read, but you gotta simmer down before you lose her
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...html#post32986
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    Default Re: Help? What Happened?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    You portrayed way too much interest, classic afc move. Back off, space out your texts, don't text her for a day, make her initiate the conversation and make her chase you

    Don't be always super available to her, have other things going on even of you don't

    You show too much availability and you're showing her that she's better than you and not something she's gonna have to work for

    This is a related post, somewhat, if you wanna read, but you gotta simmer down before you lose her
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...html#post32986
    Pierrot Agrees!

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    TheStat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help? What Happened?

    Well now it's very rare she'll even reply or text me? And I know I'm not being a bugaboo lol -__-
    Great, I'll read it!

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    Default Re: Help? What Happened?

    My Spidey senses tell me that she might not be worth the time.

    LOL. I had to say that after the Red Baron's post (i.e. you're the one screening the woman, not the other way around).

    But seriously, a good way to get your mind off this is to start hitting on other women.

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    Default Re: Help? What Happened?

    Ugh the worst thing you could have done was say "have the honor of calling you", she should feel that its an honor to call you, she already gets tons of attention as a model, you're just another drop in the bucket, don't feel bad I've made the same mistake too in the past. You already have her number, she expects you to call/text her anyways. With a new chick when she texts me I always wait at least 15 minutes to text/call her back to make her mind wander and build her urge for your response. Also I wouldn't recommend using smiley faces as a guy when texting, but that's just me, or just don't use them alot. Asking her if she likes you is kinda of redundant, she gave you her number, she has to have some sort of interest in you. I'd learn from the mistake and meet new women, good luck to you though!

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    Default Re: Help? What Happened?

    See, that's the thing.. The way I was talking couldn't of had anything to do with it, when we would talk on the phone she said she would have to go in 30 minutes, I'd say something like: ' Oh, So i'm blessed with 30 minutes of your time? " And she say: ' The way you talks so fucking cute. ' Blah Blah, then she'd repeat that same line via in a text after we hung up? So I'm assuming it was something els? However I did start to space text's out we sent a few chit chat messages I quit replying, etc a ' Goodmorning ' today.


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