I've been dating this chick for the past 8-months, and her ex of 2-yrs is trying to get back into her life. They haven't spoke since she went to pick him up at the airport and he never got on the plane 1-yr ago. Now that he found out she moved on and is happy, he come showing up at her work with 4 dozen roses crying to take him back and he made a mistak. He did abandon her, and I've pointed that out to her, so that she realizes he's not dependable.
She never really got to deal with moving on as he wouldn't return her calls or texts so now she's confused. This all went down just before x-mas so about a month ago. Now he's verbally attacking me and trying to manulipate her into taking him back. She told him I broke up with her as a measure to protect me and my career but I can take care of myself, so that doesn't sit well with me. I'm a professional, so kicking his ass is not an option even though I would love nothing better.
I know she is still talking to him and did have him over to her place when he showed up. She says she wants to deal with this on her own and for me not to get involved as it will only make matters worse. So, what do I need to do here, give her an ultimatum, some space to deal with it, or just dump her. Funny though, I told her to figure it out and call me when she made a decision and she called 4 times the next day, begging me not to give up on her.
Some background info, we are both professionals (Both in the Medical field, I'm Rx and she''s an OB.). I'm 36 she is 29. according to the Vin DeCarlo Pandoras box she is a Private Dancer (Tester, Denier, Realist) I do have feelings for her , and I'm having sex with her at least 3 times a week. So I'm looking for advice on how to destory this guy and how to keep her loyal to me. Thanks in advance!!