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    Default How to proceed with uni HB?

    Hey guys I need some advice on how to proceed with this HB I've met at uni a couple of weeks back. Sorry if this is a bit too long.

    Mostly following the 'extended' emotional progress model which works better for people in your social circle and going through the models fine. She's giving me crazy IOI, qualifies her self without me even trying to make her do so, etc. So something seems to be going well.

    Trying to get some kino as well (although I need some tips on this as well, as low-energy situations (university) need something a bit more subtle).

    Anyway, told her to join us for drinks last Friday with a few friends of mine and she came along "mostly because we had a common friend" (or so she said).

    The way the bar was set-up, some guys were with our common friend, and me with the rest of my friends were a bit further away. So she arrives at the place, greets me nicely and sat with our common friend (which was further away). I just continued talking and drinking with my friends and after 30min or so she comes over to me.

    I introduce her to the rest of the group, and as before, she gives me crazy IOI, got some nice Kino going on too (higher energy environment was a good opportunity), teased her a bit yadda yadda and she went back to 'our common friend'.

    Then a friend of mine tells me that the guy she walked in with was her BF, which she never mentioned (her fb status tho is 'in a relationship' but who pays attention to fb?). I then tried noticing their interaction and I was baffled. It was as if they were complete strangers. She had more fun with me and my friends than she was with her BF.

    Anyway, my question is how do I proceed from here? Seeing that she didnt even mention her BF up to now, it's hard to run a Boyfriend Destroyer routine on her (as I "dont know" she's got a BF).

    Thanks alot for the advice in advance!

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    Default Re: How to proceed with uni HB?

    You sure this is something you want to mess with? There are plenty of girls; why waste your time on this one that may very well bring nothing but drama? But if you're sure, just proceed as though you were unaware she had a boyfriend. If all works out, cool. If things get messy become apologetic. Say you didn't know and walk away.

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    Default Re: How to proceed with uni HB?

    Maybe you were fed wrong information. Maybe they broke up. Maybe they're getting fed up with each other and the relationship is on its last legs. Maybe he's not taking care of business like he should be. Plenty of possibilities. Approach her like that other guy doesn't exist (but do it when he's not around). If she's throwing crazy IOIs like that, then ask her on a date and try to kiss her at the end. She's gonna be tired of throwing IOIs if you don't respond and she will write you off as a potential mate. Take her IOIs now when they're still flying and capitalize. If she turns out to just be a tease and tells you she has a boyfriend as you try to kiss her, then forget about it; next target. As for the other guy, screw him; who cares about other people? LOL


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