I'm new to the game. I'm also a virgin. I'm reading Rules of the Game and The Mystery Method, and I want to start practicing the things that I've learned from Style and Mystery in their books, but I'm unsure of what to do if it comes to a sexual scenario like an f-close.
I keep hearing people say that I should lose it to someone special, but I've also heard people say that it shouldn't matter that much. I'm afraid that my uncertainty about how and to who I should lose my virginity is getting in the way of me running good game.
So I've basically got three main questions:
1. Should I care about who I lose my virginity to? On the one hand, I hear that you regret it if you lose it to just some random girl, but on the other hand, I feel like my lack of sexual experience will be holding me back from being my best self when sarging.
2. If I decide to lose it to someone that I happen to meet and seduce (if that scenario occurs), should I tell her that I am a virgin? Some female friends of mine say absolutely and that it's a dick move not to, but I don't think that admitting a lack of sexual experience is the most encouraging thing for a woman to hear.
3. Any suggestions for material that I could study ahead of time so that my first isn't a complete disaster?