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    Default Gaming a Roommate

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    Default Re: Gaming a Roommate

    come on guys, no replies?, ... .................... .................... .................... .................... .............

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    Default Re: Gaming a Roommate

    You sound like you are over-thinking things.

    You asked if you wanted to be her gf.. you said you loved her first and then she says she likes you as a friend !

    It is very clear that she knows you are chasing her. She probably is using you !

    No offense bro. I know it feels to really like someone, but you got to move on and talk to other girls this instant !

    IMHO

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    Default Re: Gaming a Roommate

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    She is a kind of girl I would love to date. However I think she is affecting my behavior.
    No one should ever affect your behavior. As the alpha male you should project yourself to be, you are who you are and if someone doesn't like that it's their loss.

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    So its was our first Friday out, where she was randomly asking me about other girls if I would date them or not. Then I told her that she is my type, and I would like to date her< my biggest mistake.
    Declaring interest like that is a mistake because it's DLV.

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    I followed her that night like a dog “I really fark up things when I get drunk, I forgot all Pua stuff ☹”.
    Don't follow the women. You have to make them chase you. By showing you are a (social) alpha male, building attraction, and being dominant. Also, don't drink. If you do so to cut the edges off, stop after two or three beers. You'll be more courageous if you drink, but also far less aware of what you are doing.

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    Next day I asked her if she would like to go out on a date on Sunday. She agreed, then we went on a date(movie + dinner, I paid for everything ☹). I told her that she seemed like she will make a good friend., she agreed. On that day, I asked her to be my gf. But then replied “but we are roommates”. I ignored her that night, because I was really excited, as this was my first date with her.
    You should invite her to a date, not ask her. Either tell her that you're going to x place at x time together or ask her if she'd like to come along to x place at x time. (So no "You wanna go on a date sunday?. Be specific).

    Furthermore, don't ever go on another boring movie + dinner first date again. Every AFC invites women to do that same thing and they're sick of it. First dates should be something light like a drink. Because that takes some pressure off as it doesn't seem like a 'real' date and prevents you from paying too much, and making it look like you're trying to buy sex.

    The ignoring was a mistake as well. You've got to have a mindset where you believe you can have a lot of girls, so one girl's rejection doesn't bother you at all.

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    Two days later, I told the other girl ((roommate) they are friends) that we went on a date but agreed to be friends. Clearly I forgot the female mind. She completely lost it on me and told me of course “she would never date you as you are her roommate”. Then I end up in a fight with other roommate. We (the girl I am trying to game and the other roommate(girl)) didn’t speak for week and a half.
    Again, remain non-responsive to other people's reactions. Don't fight others.

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    I told her that there is something going on with her, and she should get back to me when she starts feeling good again. She still treat me with I don’t care attitude. Btw she also told me that she likes me as a friends.
    Telling her to come back when she can behave again is a good thing to say in some situations, but in this case she wasn't attracted to you and you declared interest in her. You were not on top here and so that line had no effect.

    Quote Originally Posted by trancelover View Post
    One night when I was drunk I told her “I love her”.
    I think you know what you did wrong here. Telling someone you love her after she rejects you is the ultimate display of neediness and DLV.



    Don't get me wrong, I admire the fact you tried and believe me when I say I have been doing similar stuff to what you described here not too long ago. However these are mistakes and as I read your story I felt like you knew what those were and how to correct them. I think the main problem here is that you didn't use enough discipline. Especially the drinking and declaring interest parts. Combined with oneitis that was as deadly to your attempt to become her boyfriend as a bullet to the head.

    Don't worry about this girl and just forget about her. Start working on multiple girls and your discipline regarding alcohol and behaving like an alpha male. You'll be all right.

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    Default Re: Gaming a Roommate

    Virgil hit a lot of the points.

    I would add that falling for your roomate, in college, is a pretty terrible idea. Of course, you're living that nightmare. Abort, for now. Treat her, and the other roomates with respect. She's going to know every bad habit you have. Treat her like a friend of a friend. Be nice to her, don't ever single her out, make her immaterial.

    What I would do is date as many women as possible, God, I miss college. Bring them home, have the best time of your life. She'll see that and probably lose some respect for you for being such a manslut.

    Chances are she will feel jealous and want the attention you are giving to other women. She may make a move on you, if you can prove you're such an asset. If she does, it's situational.

    I would plan to make my move about a week before one of us moves out. Of course, you both still have to be single, leave that to fate. I would present it as: I hate that we're not going to get to see each other anymore. Would you like to accompany me to ________ (really fun thing about a week after you both are moved out). There, you put your skills to the test.

    For the time being, leave her alone. She's just another person to help split up the bills.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.


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