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Thread: What To Do ?

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    Default What To Do ?

    Long story short. I met a girl roughly a year ago, we have the same circle of friends and usually see each other on nights out and at friends parties etc. After flirting with each other over the months, we finally got together, briefly, over Christmas. I had always liked her but felt she wasnt really interested in me, so I was very surprised but pleased when she told me she had a major crush on me. Within a day, a close family relative of hers died, she was overcome with grief and I had to back right off. I bought her flowers and offered what support I could, and she was very grateful to me for that.

    Its been a month or so now with little contact, and when we have been in the same places things have appeared a little awkward,

    So whats my next move ? Should I text and see if she wants to meet up for coffee or a meal or should I leave it and see what happens in the coming months. Problem is, I sort of quite like her now but am very reluctant to tell her this.

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    Default Re: What To Do ?

    Waiting will get you nowhere. She had a major crush on you, but the timing was awful which no fault of you or her. I think your plan to text and invite her sounds good. If you think her grief has passed for the most part and she's getting back to normal, do it.

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    Default Re: What To Do ?

    Hey thanks for the advice. Spent the last month trying to play it cool to see if she would get in touch, It really has been hard. I wanted to text almost everyday but knew I would come across as pushy/needy if I did, plus she was not having a good time of things due to her grief.

    Anyway I took your advice and text her, she replied pretty quick saying that it would be nice to meet up. She has invited me around to her place next week. Happy Days.


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