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    Question Post first date steps - looking for opinions

    I had a date tonight with a hb10, absolute stunner she made everyone look dog ugly at this pub and every guy was staring. Was quite amusing. I'm used to that I've been out with a few.

    Anyway I organised the date with her durin the week and we were both looking forward to it. She did bring a friend which I have no problem with for a first meeting.

    Now the girls drank. I did a little. I don't normally but it felt awkward not to.

    Anyway the girl and I were flirting... Stares and gazes etc... Was good. One thing I was like wtf about was she said I should go on a date with her friend. Lol must admit I was a little annoyed. I basically ignored it and her friend kinda blushed and ignored it too cause she could see I was into her friend, the girl I was on this date with.

    Anyway as the night progressed I got closer to the girl with plenty of touching and grabbing and holding. She kissed me as well which was good cause she initiated it. I played along but disnt give too much. Anyway we kissed a few times.

    She got pretty drunk in the end so the night ended pretty quick. The girls jumped in a taxi and head off. She did give me a small hug and kiss before she got in taxi.

    After they took off I started walkin away thinking ''wtf just happened" because the night flew by.

    Some thought on the night guys? Also how I should follow it up? Would appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Post first date steps - looking for opinions

    Good to see people replying... lol

    I got a Day 2 anyway...

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    Default Re: Post first date steps - looking for opinions

    She was testing you... and also seeing if her friend liked you.

    I would have said - sure, I may take her out when I am done with you.

    Or maybe all three of us could go on a date...

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    Default Re: Post first date steps - looking for opinions

    haha i like that!

    could be a test id agree
    but it may be too quick, shes as hot as you say, and if shes getting attention, your just giving it to ehr like any guy would. your not differnt, and ther espect would degreace.
    your there so she'll stay and have some fun, but she doesnt respect you enough to take you home becasue your not what she is looking for, something to step out ahead of the rest.

    no offense im sure you are, but becasue you kissed so much it was just to easy. id have pulled her back, stopped her kissing you telling her to calm herself down your not that sort of guy etc

    IF her friend was there the"i'll have her when im done with you" may not have gone down well if you mostly 1 setted her, but wouldnt be bad if it was an open conversation.

    its tough luck, but a good learning experince. if it was aproper date remember to change venu alot, start small get bigger it gives the impressiony ou've been going out longer then you actually have. its very sn eaky lol

    and be sure to be the one incontrol, make sure your the one changing the venu, and deciding where you go(try and thi nk about it before the date) if the night was over try and sense it before she leaves and say it was funa nd you'd end it there, it can turn a stail date on its head(iv done ita few times its uncanny how an uninterested girl will suddenly like you and want you to stay when you make them thing they've jsut fuckedup big time)

    do be careful when your drinking, you dont want to get drunk, and you dont want her drunk.

    best of luck old boy let me kn ow how it goes!
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: Post first date steps - looking for opinions

    Actually I thought I played out that first evening pretty well. When she kissed me I did pull back etc.... I let her then I pulled her back and said "not in front of your friend its rude".... hahaha I thought it worked a treat. We didnt kiss that much was like 2 or 3 times but it wasnt a 5 minute session was like 5-10 seconds.

    yer she was shit testing me but I reckon I passed... I dont see whats wrong with ignoring it?

    Anyway Wed came around and I asked her out again for this sunday and she said shes love to and is looking forward to it. Its just the two of us.... and Im picking her up from her place.

    I like the idea of changing venues, Ill keep this in mind for Sunday and Ive actually thought ahead on this anyway

    Thanks guys.


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