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    Default Solo Sarging....Good Idea?

    Ok so I just got back into the community last week after being in a relationship for over two years. I'm having a hard time finding people wanting to go out as much as I want to. Im thinking of just starting to sarge by myself. First is this a good idea or should I only go when friends want to go out. More importantly if it does work how do I achieve this without demonstrating DLVs by not being there with someone else. Any bit of advice would be appreciated. Also to end the post, I am not afraid of opening sets and hearing rejections. Hahaha I still remember some stuff from my past so I'm comfortable and confident with myself.

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    Default Re: Solo Sarging....Good Idea?

    I don't have any reservations about going out by myself. Just meet people when you're out. If you're being social, no woman will know you're there alone until after you've spoken with her a while.

    Even when I go out with friends, I seperate myself from them and go it alone. The only time I really stay with my friends is when I go with females, just the two of us. That is as much for their safety as it is to be seen with them by other women.

    It's easier to get a woman home when you only have to look after yourself.

    A wingman is most useful in the very beginning, when you are ready to isolate, and if you get stuck somewhere. Even then, learning to unstuck yourself is a valuable tool to have.

    I would rather be a wing for one of my friends who isn't comfortable and/or capable of going it alone than have them wing for me. In my past experience, less experienced wings tend to screw up good things I had going.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Solo Sarging....Good Idea?

    I have a good buddy of mine who for some reason always goes out alone. He loves it and doesn't care. Exactly what Nik said... she won't realize it until she asks who you are with... here's what it comes down to..
    You are alone, you approach a woman and talk... She looks at you like this, "Oh, wow. he came up to me without his friends or a wingman and has enough confidence to do it."
    This automatically DHV. Being social is sexy. Regardless if you are with 1,2, or 6 friends. It may help DHV if you are with a group and are sort of the ring leader/alpha male, but it isn't the ultimate secret to success. So do you and do what you need to do.

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    Default Re: Solo Sarging....Good Idea?

    it works if you go to a dance club or something where your solo anyway when dancing with them. the pro's are you'll probably approach more women as you have to without losing social status. the con's are it's harder to just have fun and that can easily take a toll on your game. if going solo it's better to just talk to women when you see them in store etc. it's harder as their shield are up but you also don't have the competition.


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