I just have a quick question, if anybody from "outside" could give me some advice would be great.
Just to give you context, I don't usually have difficulties on having something with girls, unless I'm really interested which is rare.
In this case, this girl is a friend for short time (less than a month), we belong to the same friends group and so at weekends we go all for coffee/party and we also make 1 jam session during the week.
My simple question might be stupid as I'm caring to much with this, but I'm curious to know how people would behave/react to this, as this case is "strange"
Basically a common friend told me on last saturday her grandfather had an AVC, I had a few drinks that night, so I got the idea he died. So next day I sent her a Facebook message saying my condolences and if she needed anything to just ask.
She replied saying thanks for making her fell that she has friends in this town already (we are all from other countries in this group friends) and she also said that her grandfather was still alive, then she said I'll see you on next week.
(this text is getting big for a simple question :P)
So I replied something like "ups sorry i had drinks when the guy "X" told me, so I misunderstood, how is he?"
And then no answer since then... (almost 5 days ago)
Now the question, how should I react when I see her again on the jam session next week?
In a normal situation, I would not say anything or maybe I would say "hey I sent a message asking how is he?" and I would ask again.
I mean, whether I would ask or not, it would be normal, not like I had thinking about if I should ask or not...
But in this case her grandfather died, its rude and not polite if I don't ask something again when I see her...
So what would you do? Would you ask her again by her grandfather? Would you mention you asked her before in Facebook?
Thanks you for any answer!