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    Default Girl thinks im a player need help

    I worked with this girl, she liked me, unfortunately so did a quite afew other girls, then one in particular started hating, talkin trash bout me probably out of jealousy. Anyhow the attention from the others died down considerably, my target still likes me but not as much as in the begining. I got her number and facebook before quitting that job, havent seen her in 3 months, and keep contact to a bare minn due to her level of interest. Just wondering if any of you guys might have any suggestions on how to "re ignite" her interest?

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    Default Re: Girl thinks im a player need help

    I have a mate at work who's dated many girls in the office. It can work to your advantage as girls could be curious. The main problem is that other girl who bad mouthed you - but that is ultimately her attitude not yours. This girl you like is not suddenly going to become interested unless you make her. Start saying a few nice things to her to show good face, then get her curiosity going. If she thinks your a player, well you are! Otherwise your the loser on the sideline. Girls often say they are wary of playboys but usually they only dislike the sleazy ones. Most girls go for the playboy more than the idle guy on the sidelines. Ask her out informally. Not a dinner date, but something non threatening and fun to get her trust in you back up?

    Not talking much for 3 months though she will wonder what you have been doing for that time.I always ask girls out straight away and strike while the irons hot. Use the window of opportunity because sometimes it only knocks once.

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    Default Re: Girl thinks im a player need help

    Hey,

    I came across this post and thought to give some perspectives as a girl because your situation sounds like what I went through some time ago (but I already ended things with the guy).

    It really depends on the girl's personality. Not talking for three months can have at least two possible effects:
    1) as Kenny Powers said, the girl may be wondering what you've been up to; OR
    2) it may have re-inforced the girl's perception/suspicion that you are a player and that could be a deal breaker for her and because of that she might have moved on.

    While the girl's level of interest may seem limited or decreased, it could be because she's been trying to match your level of interest (that you have shown her). Personally, I'd see "three months of not seeing/ bare minimum contact" as the guy has lost interest. We girls have learnt and been taught over and over again not to chase.

    Bottom line is, if you really like her, just ask her out for coffee or something, and let things flow from there. You may also want to straight out, but briefly, explain that the rumors about you were not true and that you'd like to catch up and get to know her. Open and honest communication is always the key.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: Girl thinks im a player need help

    The three basic steps (according to Mystery Method) is that first you build attraction, then comfort, and finally move to seduction. Any of those out of order there is a term most of us have heard. If you are the guy that builds comfort with a woman before building attraction then you are labeled as the "nice guy" and run the risk of getting the LJBF speech. If, however, you are good at building attraction, skip a woman's comfort level and go straight to seduction then that is what a player is. Your story is a bit vague on details but maybe you should look at comfort building techniques if this is truly the case. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Girl thinks im a player need help

    Quote Originally Posted by gorgo300 View Post
    Hey,

    I came across this post and thought to give some perspectives as a girl.
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