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    Default <'3 Help please

    So theres thi s girl ive been talking to for months /:
    im heartbroken I tried to kill myself ( slit my wrist didnt hit the vein )
    she still loves me she says she does but she told me she fell for her friend and there together and she wants honesty with him.. She's had boyfriends in the past but it never changed anything between us we still had sex etc love you etc
    she acts distant but occasionly throughout the day she'll text me calling me babe hun and etc.. But is relucent to say i love you.. And today she told me she wants to be friends.. the conversation started off like: " Babe I went swimming today! " I was like : did you have fun? ' She was liek yes. " blah blah then next she's like: " can we be strictly friends? ' I said I can't do that. /: ' she asked me to think about it.. i replied.. ' Be freinds with the girl I love? The one i've been crying over these last days? The one that can make me smile without even trying? " The most beutiful girl I've ever loved? ' etc..
    She said I guess you made up your mind.. <'3 goodbye.. Ibut it didn't end with a goodbye.. What can I do? I love her so much I can live without her/: if i cant get her back i'm afraid next time i wont pull through. /: If yall need more info let me know...

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    Default Re: <'3 Help please

    Emotionally in this scenario, It appears you have Oneitis. Oneitis is where you feel that the woman you're currently in/building a relationship with, is the best, and only woman for you.

    Don't worry brother, I've been down the exact sort of path. Yes, even the suicide attempts a few times (at a younger age).

    The solution to this is to have more women in your life. By this, I do not mean cheating on multiple women. All I mean is to start building relations with many Women.

    Doing so creates a greater sense of relationship safety in your subconscious. You will then not feel as though she is the only one, as your subconcious knows that you know many women

    Keep note, that if your current relationship does come to an end, to leave the relationship in good terms, and whatever you do... do NOT act needy. In the future, this could create an opportunity for you to earn her back. By her knowing from that day on, that you're fine about the breakup, you're happy and friendly about it, and that you're not dependent on her... it'll stay in the back of her head.

    *Another note here: DO NOT TEXT HER AT ALL if you break up. Remember, it's her loss. Over time, she may feel that. Especially because of the next paragraph below.

    When she has those alpha-male characteristics in the back of her head, along with your personality, and loyalty... You may find her to feel jealous when you're doing something with another girl, and see's you having fun with another girl.



    There have been numerous situations where women want to leave a relationship, do so, and then realize the man they're seeing afterwards turns out to be an ass. In which afterward, they want their old boyfriend back, because they see that nobody knows them as well, and cares about them as much as their old boyfriend.

    Women like to compare relationships around the beginning of every new relationship. They'll compare their new man, to the old man...

    ...And when you think like a PUA, you're incomparable to any AFC.

    I'm glad to see you here mate! What you're going to learn here will change your life (in a good way of course).


    If you're ever unable to get her back in any case at all, keep in mind that there are many women out there. Just tell your subconscious to shut the F*** up, as it's the one triggering the negative emotional responses.


    I used to have a serious case of oneitis, and depression.
    The more women you have in your life, the less you feel it. This is fact.


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