Long story short(er) I met this one girl I started hanging out with. I liked her, so I did the right moves (at least I think) things were going well till her ugly bestfriend cock-blocked me (to a point not known to man) I was stupid enough to fall for her ugly friends' trap.
...few months later, this girl gets a boyfriend
boyfriend is lame, socially akward,doesnt hardly ever go out with her, no enthusiasm, boring, and I dont like to judge guys on appearance but, not attractive whatsoever.
Because he's not outgoing, (and she is) she keeps asking me to hangout/party/movies whatever to fill that void for him to going anywhere with her. Although they are dating, she has never reffered to him as "boyfriend" in my presence.
She litrally texts/calls me every day to do stuff with her, I do have a life of my own, so I will maybe agree to go somewhere with her less than once a week and still often flake out last minute (this is the reason (I think) she is still calling/texting to get me out)
Do you think I may be in the friend zone? I mean, I don;t think I am
Also, I do know the basic destroyer teqniques of defending the bf when she bitches about him, but she doesn't, because she has never reffered to him as her bf to me.
What should I do, I want to get her back, and make sure this guy is out.I still very much like her (i dont show it purposely, unless in a playfull way)
Few days ago a bunch of us went for drinks, I actually came with her, but her bf showed up with some mutual friends, I was doing whatever I do, having great fun, going crazy, talking/dancing with random people and she just kinda sat there looking at her bf (who was just sitting there still)and finally said to him "you know, if you dont wanna be here, you can leave, why are you always like this"
I dont know, any kind of assistance would be nice.
Btw, im going clubbing with her and a bunch of friends really soon (unsure if her bf will come or not) any advice even for that day alone? Thanks