I've met this HB9 twice so far; both at my friends place.
The first time:
Was for a brief moment, ~20 minutes. She came in with her boyfriend so I had no intentions of pursuing her. She says hi to my friend and a few other people in a passive stoic fashion. I hadn't gotten up off the couch so she came to say "nice to meet you" but did it with much more energy after she saw me. I could tell both of us felt a strong attraction to each other instantly indicated through our longer-than-normal strong eye contact and the lingering "hello" hand shake.
I got up and went to go talk to them and the whole time she's standing closer to me, laughing, tossing her hair side-to-side, looking at me through the corner of her eye. Finally, during the bye, the same strong eye contact took place but this time the handshake was much longer in duration and she seemed genuinely happy in that moment. And that was it.
The second time:
Was for a few hours, the next night. Her bf came in first, said wussup to my friend and then saw me and said "oh sh1t, this dudes here" to himself, but I overheard it. After what happened first time, his tone and the statement set off bells in my head. He'd just met me for the first time previously, I couldn't have possibly offended him in any other manner for that reaction.
15 minutes later she comes in and he was like let me introduce you to some of my people, but she breaks away and comes to say "hey nice to see you again" to me first, and the same chemistry was present. At this time he came to get her and said "yeah yeah you already met this dude before, move on damn" as if he was upset and didn't want her to be around me. Top top it off, I was the only one sitting on the couch but he went out of his way to go get chairs so they could sit further; even though she was like "oh the couch..."
That happens. Next, he takes a few shots and smokes his personal herbs. I start playing FIFA against my friend, and this dude is talking sh1t indirectly the whole time. Like "yeah bi***, take that! who the f*** only scores 1 goal? thats pathetic in life, get your arse whooped b****" etc etc. I just knew it was directed at me, but I maintained my composure.
Soon after, I went to smoke a cigarette and came in to find him passed out in the closet, LOL. She stays and hangs out for a bit. When she sat down she gives me the "im so sorry" face with the lower lip puckered, sad eyes, and a small gentle smile mixed in. I guess she knew what was up.
Night goes on, we have a few eye locking moments, she went to choose a DVD and her body language was open; but only towards me. As if she sub-consciously did it for me, even though there were 4 other people in the room. She also made and kept direct eye contact with me whenever she talked compared to the others.
During the bye, she doesn't even go to check on her bf's status but says bye to everyone and comes to me last and says "really good seeing you again" to which I responded "definitely good seeing you, the pleasure was all mine." Same long eye contact and hand-shake. And then she leaves.
One day later, she adds my friend on facebook and I noticed cause I was posting on his wall. I wait another day and shoot her a request; she accepts instantly. After about 8 hours I shoot her this message:
"lol hmm for a girl who uses facebook "once a week" that was a quick approval hah.. and I guess you eventually found your way out from the apt complex into **** afterall huh?"
Her: 1:08 am
"Lmao... yeah I did.. it was pretty easy.. just a u turn... aannndddd I got a message saying I had a friend request.. if I semi know the person then I'll just add.."
Me: 1:45 am (i was up late cause of studying)
"ahah that's impressive cause you seemed damn lost when we were explaining it to ya lol.. but yea you popped up on my friend-feed so I thought I should be nice and make it a little easier for you to stalk me lmao ... gosh I'm such a gentleman right? ;P
Her: 1:10 pm
"I knew exactly where we were at... lol easier for me or for you to stalk me!?!?! Lmao"
Me: 8:43 pm
"Lmao damn ma, you caught me! I guess you're smarter than you look lol :P... but just to be absolutely clear, I only stalk women on facebook on tuesday/thursdays between 8-9pm haha and to top it off I have pretty high standards missy... are you assuming that you actually meet my requirements and are worthy of my precious stalking time?!? hah "
So how am I doing? Please help! Pointers Please!