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    Antimatter13 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Senior who is going away.

    So I went on a trip to Florida and met this really cool girl. She always seemed to follow me, and seemed interested. She called me her boy, and was very playful. She evenput her head on my shoulder, which makes me feel primal.
    But then we got back and everything seemed to change. We didn't see each other alot, and she gave me the I'm not looking kinda text. Any texts trying to meet up for lunch, or go hang out have not gone well. We don't text that often and when we do, she barely replies back, so I don't push the issue. Is it possible to be a terrible texter?
    Every time we meet in person though, her body language seems very interesting, she looks directly at my face, and faces me in the eyes and then at my mouth. I stand in the open position and give her false time constraints, and she continues to talk. She tells me, though she is a graduating senior who is moving on with life, and I am a Junior. I am going AFC on this girl, and I wonder if there is anywhere I can go. I am going over to study with her roommate and she will probably be there as well. Would this be inapropriate to ask her out.

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    Default Re: Senior who is going away.

    Alright, so what is happening here, is that she's attracted to you, and would probably go out with you IF she wasn't graduating, and going to post-secondary/etc.


    Being that she's older than you, It would seem as though she knows she's going to meet many other guys at college/university, or clubs, etc.


    It's more the planning that she has in her head about pushing past the "high-school" connected memories still left in her head, and "moving on". The fact that you're still in high school is playing on her mind along with the attraction she still has toward you.


    If you can post the text-convo, and perhaps clarify a few details (i.e. did this girl come back from Florida with you? Do you live near Florida?), I'd certainly be glad to help much more Remember that we're trying to see through the eyes of what you tell us


    From what I see in this:

    -She's Independent (Independent girls won't text often, neither should you. When you text too much, you appear 'needy')

    -She wants to dissassociate herself with anything high-school

    -(I'm not entirely sure here as I need more info) Perhaps she lives too far, and knows a LDR (Long-Distance Relationship) won't work with her personality.

    -She's attracted to you. (In Florida she was all over you)

    -Perhaps she was looking for a One Night Stand, and not a serious relationship

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    Last edited by OOKĖ; 02-21-2012 at 10:07 PM.

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    Default Re: Senior who is going away.

    Yes I see i do need to do a bit of clarifying.

    We are both in college. She is graduating, but doesn't know what she wants to do with life. She may come back for grad school, but is not sure.

    It seems i should just get her drunk at a party or something and hook-up with her, but i just haven't gotten that chance yet. Maybe in the near future.

    We have been texting and talking for a little over a month.

    A conversation we have had, one of the last good text conversations. As we were getting back from winter break i asked when she would be back if she would like to do something.

    She asked when, and i felt like i was in, then she sent me this 3 page text saying she has a hard time keeping guys as friends, and that she doesn't want to hurt me blah blah blah. And I told her she could think that, but I wasn't trying to be in an exclusive relationship with her, just get to know her better, because we really just met. And then she responded that i was really great at communication and sometimes she wasn't so great. Then I basically told her i was just looking for some passion in life, and that didn't necessarily include a relationship. I have sent a few goodmornings and they have generally gotten a good response from her.

    Thanks for the help.


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