Well, there's more to it. I think I'll start off by explaining myself first.
I am 25 years old. I have literally zero experience with girls (but I'm getting there! It's about farking time!). I'm still a virgin. Almost broke it a couple years ago but screwed up. The past year or so, I've been working on PUA and game for the first time ever (after reading "The Game "). I always thought that if I just "find a girlfriend", then everything will be perfect. But I realized that just hitting on chicks and trying to get some is a lot more fun. I've been infatuated with several girls that I really liked, but I mainly got over them and said screw it, there's more out there.
I met a girl over a month ago and we hit it off really well. Turns out we graduated from the same college at the same year and had similar majors, yet we never met. We hung out with other friends we met a couple times, but finally I decided to ask her out to for a bite to eat and she accepted. This sounds cheesy I know, but we have everything in common, literally everything. She's absolutely perfect in both looks and personality. She's also quite shy and reserved, and she seems traditional in the sense that I definitely have to make a move. Never have I liked a girl so much.
I had to go out of town for 3 weeks but when I came back, I immediately asked her if she wants to go for a run/hike/walk and then grab some dinner. She accepted again. We actually ended up spending nearly the whole day in San Francisco and ran across the golden gate and just had a farking blast. From what I read and heard before, I understand that I have to take it "easy" with these shy girls and escalate really slow. So I did. But taking it 'easy' made me go back to my old self. I didn't even perform any Kino on her (regret it now). I didn't really flirt with her or anything. My inner game was great. I was confident, fun, SUPER relaxed (amazing how exercise does that to some people), outgoing, and non-needy at all. But I basically acted like a great "friend" because there was no flirting or anything. She also, showed no interest. Just acted like a friend. I'm pretty sure I'm in the dreaded friend zone but I'm thinking maybe she's just waiting for me to make a move because she is shy and I know she had a great time. She also invited me out with her friends (which I went tonight, and it was lame, and I barely said a word to her. On top of that, she showed absolutely no interest. Not even any eye flairs. IS THIS because she's shy???).
I want to ask her to hang out for a third time. This weekend (it's Tuesday night, I just saw her an hour ago, and the day we spent together was Sunday. I want to ask out for Fri or Sat night). This time, I farking swear I'll make a move. I'll start holding hands with her, kino , say the right things, tease , etc.
1) Could she not be showing interest because she's shy and reserved? Maybe it was actually ok that I took it "easy"???
2) Is it too late for me to make a move? (it would be a third date).
Regarding the 1st question, I want to point out the dreaded ending to the day. She left my car and I came in to hug her goodbye. She kind of had a "what?" reaction and avoided it. I said "oh I was just going to hug you", then she's said "oh sorry, I'm really weird when it comes to hugs. Bye! I had so much fun today!" WHAT THE HELL? ALL I WANTED WAS farkING HUG. That's what made me realize that maybe it's ok I didn't kino her.
I want her really bad. She's hot too, with a really petite body. An 8 approaching a 9. I'm not even kidding, my d1ck hardened a few times as I spent that day with her.