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    Default Need Advice on Girl

    A couple weeks ago I met this girl from a mutual friend. She's really cool and became a regular in our group. The night that I met her, she told me she was just on a date, so I held back a bit, but eventually tried with her in spite of this fact. I've hung out with her in groups, had one on one conversations with her, and stuff like that. She added me on facebook, and got my number off a friend. Just yesterday, when I was asleep in my room, she came knocking, trying to extract information about a bet she had with one of my other friends. Nonetheless, she came in and closed the door when I was half naked and sat beside me. My friends cock-blocked hard (we're all into her, its essentially war) by taking her out of my room. She was really trying to get me alone though, it was all in fun, but still, she liked the idea of being alone. I'm trying to let her know I'm interested while simultaneously trying to get her into me.

    This is our most recent text conversation (about an hour ago)

    Me: Hey what's up?
    Her: Heyy... I'm just doing my history assignment..hby?
    Me: 'Studying' for philosophy, but I'm getting distracted
    Her: Well study!
    Me: Ugh, fine, but we're hanging out when we're both done
    Her: Ok sounds good
    Me: Sweet

    She still might be into that guy, but based on conversations with her, he's really shitting the bed. I could use some advice on what I can do not to be friendzoned. We're going to b hanging out this weekend in our group of friends (st. Paddys) and I need to know how/when to make a move.

    Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Need Advice on Girl

    Hi matthorvat7,

    It sounds like things are going pretty well. Being put in the friendzone typically happens when there is connection but no masculine drive.

    So just make sure you have this drive. For example: touching (not creepy though); leading (i.e. take her hand and lead her somewhere); escalating.

    Hope this helps.
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    Default Re: Need Advice on Girl

    Totally agree with rs5, about connection/no masculine drive but also
    Time is one of the factors that leads to the Friendzone so act boldly and act soon

    You should be cool and go for a kiss this weekend. I think she will go for it but even if she doesn't it will stand you in good stead as you will have shown her clear intent (as long as you remain cool afterwards) But again I think she will go for it.

    Good luck man, let us know how it goes

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    Default Re: Need Advice on Girl

    Great advice guys! I'll be sure to let you know how it goes.


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