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    TieDown is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Hot and Fun girl at work

    I know all the warnings involved with this. But I know a number of people who have also had successful relationships that started from work.
    There is a girl at work I like we have texted with some flirting, nothing escalated. We hung out and went on a date. The date went well no k close, it seems we were both taking it slow. She has reservations over us being coworkers.
    I get the feeling I like her more than she likes me or she is just keeping it all close to her vest. Anyways after some stuff we went out again. I decided not to really make any moves or anything. I wanted her to initiate things, which she did. It ended with a k close. I sense she is still not ready to dive into this.

    I feel like I need to create a romantic connection or Freeze Out. I would prefer not to freeze out because I think it can backfire. Any ideas, I'm pretty new to all this. Although since I have made an active effort to learn more about pick up and practice it (10 months or so) I have not had my heart race like it does with this girl. Maybe I need to take a step back, but I'd prefer not to...

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    Default Re: Hot and Fun girl at work

    ONE STEP FORWARD TWO STEPS BACK. if you guys go out again, just take it as if its your guys first date again. You got the k-close so you know shes into you regardless if she shows it or not.

    Just keep it going how it is..just dont show to much interest, your the prize. Kino kino kino. than if the moments there ask her. would you like to kiss me...

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    Default Re: Hot and Fun girl at work

    I wouldn't freeze her out either. I don't think you have built enough attraction with her Yet and she will probably think you just aren't interested, and move on. What you need to do is play to the strength that your love is "forbidden". Women like this because it is something that she knows is wrong but feels so right.

    At work you need to avoid her, make her feel like you both have something to hide from everyone else. When you do see her, look her in the eyes and give her a slight smile, but don't say much. Remember that seduction happens when you are away from each other, when she is sitting there wondering what you are thinking. The lack of contact at work will make it even more passionate and compelling when you finally do get to see each other and touch and kiss and etc....

    You need to get her on another date and you need to tell her its no big deal that you two are seeing each other, but also that having this little secret is "fun". As Gambet said, Kino and touching will go a long way to make her comfortable with you when you are alone, but try not to show too much interest in her with what you say. Tease her, keep it playful and don't spill your heart out to her on how much you like her or how beautiful you think she is. Standard dating game pretty much.

    You DON'T want her to think you like her more than she likes you, and that you would sacrifice you career for her. No woman is worth that, nor does she want a man who would do that for her anyways. You have to be careful however, if you are not initiating a kiss or any forms of contact she might put you in the friendzone and good luck getting out of that one. Basically, less talk, more touching.

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    Default Re: Hot and Fun girl at work

    Thanks for the advise guys. The Kino does make sense and I'll work on that. Also I'm not willing to sacrifice my career, I know anytime you mess around at work it can have consequences but even if I'm in a relationship with someone at work I keep the two separate. Work is Work, outside of that is my time. With that said, I would be surprised if anyone at work knew that we were spending time together outside of work because we do not flirt at work in the open.

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    Default Re: Hot and Fun girl at work

    Cheers guys this has really helped me out as well


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