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Thread: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

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    Default This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    This girl rear ended me, which resulted in me getting her number. She is gorgeous. I got her on facebook and we text and stuff, we texted for a long time the other day, flirty texting. She made reference about how much she liked talking to me, however she didnt answer my last couple texts... need to wheel this one in. What do i do next and what do i say? lets hear it

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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    Wait, Hold out. Then message her and organise drinks, any sort of meeting.

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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    Errant has got it man go Freeze Out for a while then actually meet her to hang.

    I would watch for vibrating sounds while your with her though if she rear ended you lol jk

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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    She may have been texting you back due to the fact that she was relieved that you wouldn't hunt her down for rear ending you. Then it dragged on too long and she lost interest.

    First few texts should be to diffuse the rear-ending situation so she doesn't feel you'll hold it against her. You can make jokes about it so she doesn't feel that you may be of danger to her, as she is probably a bit nervous about if you are angry at her for the accident. ("Don't worry about the accident, I was only putting on makeup for my set at the Chippendales club. The impact made me smear eye-liner on my face, but I was able to play it off as war-paint made away with some great tips."). Then, some small talk and flirtation and proceed with scheduling a meet up. Nothing wrong with wanting to meet up. Don't spend 1-2 weeks texting before suggesting a meetup. I usually suggest a meetup with the first 10-20 messages I send a girl. If she agrees to meetup, then you can continue texting her to build comfort. The key here is to get it in her head that you want to meetup and not be a text buddy.
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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    The freezout idea is good... but don't make it to long.

    Then to re-initiate, send her something really funny & personal. You already have a GREAT subject to work with, so I'd try something like,
    "Heya, I was just wondering when we might 'run into each other again'? ba-dum, PSSS!! I have Tues afternoon & Thurs evening wide open... "

    Maybe tweak it a little bit, but that's just off the top of my head.

    But make it something that will get her attention, make her laugh, and express that you're definitely interested in getting together.


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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    I think I'd be too upset about getting rear ended lol. And would be completely suspicious of a woman trying to get on my good side after she did something like that. But the ugly truth is that the beautiful do get treated differently.

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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    It also makes for a great story later on, if things actually work out...
    "so, how did you two meet?"
    "Casey Crash here, ran into me with her car..."

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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    The others have this one down - freeze her out then organize something to get together. I can't remember who it was by but I read somewhere that the phone (especially texting) should not be used to try and build comfort. A call here and there to talk is one thing but building comfort through texting is difficult to do and is better to be done in person. The phone should merely be used as a gateway to the next meeting.
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    Default Re: This girl crashed into my car and i want her

    If this escalates further please can you (when building attraction) text her saying "You rear ended me, when do I get to rear end you?"


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