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    Smile Where do i go from here

    ive been going to school with this girl but then i moved and i havent seen her for 2 years, One day i talked to her again and got her #, and weve been texting and flirting for like 2 months now.


    it has its ups and downs but generally pretty good. I saw her yesterday she came over my place and i had a friend over and we just chilled playing rockband. I commented on her tits, she smiled about it and called me a dick laughing. i really like her, and am going to meet her again since i only have limited time since i cant see her again for the summer.


    i would really like to have something more than a friendship with this one. Where do i go from here, right now were just friends, do i pull a kiss soon, like ask her on a date and pull a kiss. ? suggestions .?


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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    Doesn't sound like you need a date. Just kiss her.
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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    ok so, we went bowling but a friend Rick is staying over at my place for the break, and we had fun bowling and we did it with dares like strikes are a dare and so on. eventually i had to run around the bowling alley without my shirt, and she had to do it pantless. we all went back at my place for a late night movie. it was good we were laughing and having fun.

    rick fell asleep on us which left only us 2, and we were cuddling and joking around. i was tickling her and what not. Then i accidentally spilled my drink on her and gave her a shirt to change into.she did and we went back to cuddling.we even had a bet and we bet on an actress and she was like if you win ill kiss you if you lose you do 5 pushups. I lost :s
    . she ended up falling asleep on my lap. then insisted she had to go home because her mom was reeming her out. i should of pulled a kiss there but i didnt. dont want to fuck this up, anyways i texted her when she was gone being like had a good time with you tonight we should meet up again this time without rick interupting. she responded with lmao were friends you know that right, sound to me like you want to be dating and stuff. anyways were still texting now (next day). Did i fark this up? and how can i fix it ?


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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    Bro, you did almost everything right. The entire time she wanted you to make a move. If you wait too long she'll think, "Well I guess he doesn't like me." and she'll move on. The main problem which caused her reply, "lmao we're friends you know that right" is when you said, "we should meet up again without rick interrupting." That's like directly telling her, "If we did that much last time, next time we'll have sex." How can you have sex with her when you didn't even escalate? How to get her back: Tell her that you've been talking to some girl that seems cool. Create that jealousy plot line. The only way she will want you is when she knows she might lose you. Now, try to reduce your texting, make her think that you've been texting less because you might be hanging out with the other girl. Create that fear of loss and it will work like a charm. Also, don't bring up anything that you guys did while Rick was sleeping because that will make her think once again of why she said she'd rather be friends. Instead, only talk about the fun you guys had bowling, that will remind her of how much fun you are and what she might lose if she doesn't come back to you. Overall, you did pretty good. I'm sure you'll get her back and make it happen. Good luck man.

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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    thanks, i froze man. but were both graduating this year, going off to different unis 3 hours away, i still want a relationship with her because honestly she is all i think about, and i cant imagine myself being with anyone else. I'm in a school in a different city but come here every now and again(say Boston for this conversation). i will be here in Boston every weekend from now and until i graduate 16th June. her b day is coming up on the 16th also, and i want to build up attraction and meeting with her a lot so that when that day comes we could potentially have something,. Sex is also not for discussion since she has the v card still, i don't care too much about that tho. im so deep for this girl i don't care about the sex, just want a real thing with all that gay sh1t. I'll try what your saying but i don't see her for the jealous type, and were going to be seeing alot of each other. I'm coming back to Boston next weekend where I'm going to ask her out for real. I'm gonna be like look ( Lauren) I'm a guy and I'm attracted to smart, gorgeous women, so naturally I'm quite fond of you, and i would really like to take you out for a real date. What do you think guys?

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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    Quote Originally Posted by Frankthetank View Post
    she responded with lmao were friends you know that right, sound to me like you want to be dating and stuff.
    This was a shit test for her to see what kind of man you are. In the future, don't stand for this.
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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    how would i deal with that tho? counter it? the text came in last night around 2 when she left my place, and she sent me a text this morning and havent responded yet its 9pm what do you think i should do. Fml i normally know what to do but im so lost

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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    You want to date her, right? Then text back, "I do."

    It might beat her shit test because it might be what she wanted to hear. It might also go to shit because that's not what she wants, but it's going to save you time instead of dragging it out. It's also a total Alpha move and something to be proud of even if it doesn't work.

    50/50. It's a toss up that seperates the boys from the men. How you react to it also seperates the beta bitches from the alphas. A man would step up. An alpha wouldn't let a sour outcome phase him.

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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    i changed the topic last night, but should i keep texting her untill friday where i ask her out again, but im afraid if i do that then by only texting.. it will fizzle out and wont be as good. So should i ignore untill like friday and ask her out then? or what should i do.

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    Default Re: Where do i go from here

    Friday's a ways away yet. Wait a while and send something tomorrow but dont have a conversation. Something every few hours is fine I guess but keep it to a minimum until you get your in person opportunity.
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