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    Spatz2 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Getting Ex-girlfriend back

    Okay before you tell me to move on and that theres plenty of fish in the sea please read on further.

    I was dating this girl for 3 years when we broke-up 3 months ago in February. The main reason we broke up was me starting to get bored and unsure about the relationship which caused me to break up with her 1 night after a huge fight. well its been 3 months now and i still want her back. No it is not my emotions wanting her back its me being logical and knowing she was actually a great GF, and id really like another chance with her and give her the great guy she knew for the first 2 1/2 years of our relationship.

    I made some classical mistakes after the break up. I told her i wanted to get back together with her about three weeks after the break up and showed her that i was really sad about us being over which definitely fed her anger, making her not wanting to get back together, and just wanting to remain friends for now. So i decided for us to go No-Contact. well were back talking again and she wants to go for drinks with me on wednesday.

    During the time i was in no contact with her i read "the Game" and the "mystery method" and took notes on them. The books really opened up my eyes in regards to woman and how to suduce them, and build strong levels of attraction with their emotions. The books even went over things i had done with past girls on accident which got me laid. So I'm planning on using some of these techniques on my ex when we meet up to get her back and id really like some of your guys opinions.

    The Game Plan
    -Use of false disqualifies-im going to tell her were better off being just friends and thats all I'm looking for
    -Tease her a little bit, and flirt
    -Demonstrate high value of course
    -Preselection-I have a friend who works at the lounge were meeting at who's going to subtly flirt with me. maybe touch my hair or something.
    -jealousy plot-Have a girl call me when I'm out with her and say I'm still meeting up with her and her friends after I'm done having drinks.
    -Bring up 1 good memory we shared together
    -Avoid talking about the relationship.
    -Play with her emotions, to get her really invested in me
    -Be the first to leave and not pay for the drinks by being the nice guy, since she asked me to go for drinks.

    So if you guys have anything to add to my game plan it would be much appreciated. Also if the meet goes really well what do i do after? do i call her or should i wait for her call?

    Thanx GUYS!

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    cybersok is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting Ex-girlfriend back

    I think you are on the right track, but it seems (to me) like you are trying a lot of fairly complicated techniques without the experience to back them up. I would never suggest not using what you have learned, your sources are excellent, I would instead focus on the broader lessons, do not try complicated tricks like fake phone calls, instead display that you are a high value person, who she wants to be around.

    For example: Use your contact at the lounge as a huge dhv spike, not by playing the jealousy card, but by showing you are important. Have the best table in the lounge set aside for you because you are there all the time, and if possible have your friend come up with a pair of drinks on the house "you have to try this new vodka drink I invented". Tip: If you friend cannot give you some free drinks pay for them in advance, and still use the line.

    Being the first to leave is excellent, being a jerk and skipping the bill is not. Being the first to leave because you have another engagement shows you are busy with a life on the go without her. If you really want to evoke jealously use generic phrases like "you are meeting a friend". Using "friend" over "buddy" or "bro" leaves it open for her to determine the sex, and using the singular makes it more likely that it is a girl.

    When PUAs like Mystery say they do not buy drinks for girls, they mean girls they just met. Girls in bars wait for AFCs to buy them drinks all night, I know girls who go out and purposely get guys to buy them drinks, you do not want to be that guy. Once you are seeing a girl you really care about there is nothing wrong with paying for drinks or meals, just not all the time.

    Easiest way to settle the drink situation is to not start a tab. Stay for two rounds of drinks, pay for the first round, and she should reciprocate by paying for the second round.

    False disqualifiers in this situation are tricky, instead of saying you just want to be friends, make it clear that you are currently happy and enjoying life.


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