I can't help thinking down the road a bit, about the girl I started dating, but more in general too. I've had a couple good flings in the past year, one girl who I ended up liking a lot- but our relationship kinda plateud, and faded off rather quick after 6 months.
I'm pretty good with Opening, attracting, and closing (but surely can improve) usually on date 2 or 3, sometimes more, unless it's a fools mate, but I haven't had one of those since last summer. Not really into it but I guess that's just part of the meaning 'getting lucky.'
Anyways what I'm thinking is I should start being more direct on what I want- probably after date 3 or 4 whatever. I can't help but wonder if never stating that to my last gf/fling.. my intentions of what I want to pursue, is what caused us to drift apart. If I always seem like I just wanna have fun, make a connection, that's all they'll want.
I'm usually pretty indirect with my approach, until I make it deep into comfort (uh no pun intended ) not saying I want an LTR unless it's the right girl of course.. but I'm a little tired of gaming, dating, and never going beyond much else besides an f close and a fling (which is great) but a pua always improves that mentality, with quality women.
Well don't want to drag it on.. so I'll just ask if any of u guys have had this issue? Not saying what u want seems to be the blame for a short lived relation?
I guess I do want a gf now, but no way am I gonna stop PU it's fun finding your game and improving the best u can always