So this girl that is in my class has been giving off mixed signals causing me to give off mixed signals. I don't know if she is into me or not. We built comfort in each other, we communicate well,(altho i'm still working on my conversational skills) we would go mall and stuff but i'm not sure where she stands. There will be a time she would seem very into me for a week or two and then after that, when i look to return the favor, she would seem disconnected. This has been going on for 3-4 months now. I am aware that she was in a past 5yr relationship and she broke up because her boyfriend cheated on her so i guess she is being extremely cautious in getting into another relationship. Feeling me out trying to figure of i am for real or just another guy want to get into her pants (which would be nice lol) but i have a lot of respect for her. She is one of those girls that would turn out a lifelong friend. I am interested in long term relationship, not just her body.
It is not easy to freeze her off or "de-lust" myself since i have classes with her and i have the fear of starting over... back to square one... on the hunt. How did you guys moved on from a mixed signal chic but at the same time, still be a friend and respect her? Kinda like, the guy friend zoned her instead?