Hey guys, this is my first time making a thread and I'm pretty new to this forum but I have been studying how to game girls for almost a year now and I've got pretty good. There will be a wall of text but please be patient, I will appreciate any kind of advise.
So cutting to the chase. I am a guy at University who's working on campus this summer (I get free accommodation and everything). There is this nice, cute girl that works with me and she lives basically in the flat next door. Recently I have come out of a 3 month relationship and she knew I was seeing her but she lived back home (My Ex) and the relationship basically collapsed due to this job and the time apart.
At work we get along really well and she has an awesome personality, very outgoing and we both have similar principles. She is also a smoker like me. We sort of knew each other before this job because we have mutual friends and I am quite a well known person around campus due to my confidence and my ease at making friends.
Where we live back home is not even an issue aswell as we are both from North London but still a 30 minute drive. Most nights we hang out, chill with our friends and smoke or have a fun time. There are a good 6-8 of us who are good friends and we have made a sort of friendship circle over the past 3 weeks of working in which we are both part of.
Even when I was with my Ex I was starting to have an interest in her but I was being too nice (such as buying her lunch and giving her fags, I have also been quite complimentary which I know can be damaging). One of the first nights we starting hanging out was around 3 am when she couldn't sleep and I came around and we had an hour long conversation, especially her about her Ex who was a massive dick and I did tell her that.
Over time (last 2 weeks or so) I have been doing all the alpha traits such as being confident, having a no care attitude towards a lot of things but also being a leader and commanding things in and out of our jobs, especially when it comes to socialising. We do spend quite a lot of time together whether it would be with other people or just us two. She also saw I was upset/annoyed when I broke up with my Ex.
My problem is that while I'm escalating Kino (such as touching her around the shoulder and back from time to time, making our legs touch when we sit next to each other and also brushing her hair along with some tickling), teasing her and having a little banter now and then, I am not too sure whether she's interested in me (I need to find ways to tell if whether or not shes interested). I get mixed signals such as sometimes she responds to the kino and sometimes she doesn't. She always claims she has a black guy fetish (I am brown skinned like an indian). One night she had a fight with one of our friends and I offered her a hug and she said no. She also mentioned that I've lost weight from the first time she saw me all the way in Septemeber which I said "Thanks" to.
I am thinking of implementing some mixed signals such as telling her she's awesome and confident but contradicting it by saying I normally go for shy girls and leading on to a story and using some more kino when we're talking. I can't do a Freeze Out because she is literally unavoidable but I am keeping a slight distance. I would like us to have an LTR because I think we click very naturally but I just need to know when I should make a move and what strategies to go with.
Also one of our friends who is also a girl said on the phone "Your girlfriend says Hi" when they were out shopping and she didn't say anything negative about it. A few of the older workers at work make a few sly remarks about how close we are, but I am still in a puzzle over whether she likes me or not.
If you have read this far than I thank you with all my sincerity and I am open to any feed back whether it would be positive or negative. If you any worthy advise or have been in a similar situation, please let me know because I really do like her and I have all the tools to get her but I am just not sure how to apply it.
Thank you for your time!