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    Default I'm falling for this girl at the supermarket..

    Hi all, new to these forums, thought I would make an account to get some help!.

    Well theres this girl I like that I see sometimes, I know what days she works, I know a bit about her, she does hairdressing, she likes the football and last time we talked she said she went to the football.. (So I was thinking.. maybe she has a BF?

    So I saw her today and she was there but helping someone learn.. so I was kicking myself like DAMN!.

    I really like her and I've talked to her but I haven't introduced myself.. I know her name but I have never said her name..

    She looks at me and looks away (did this a few times today) I was going to wave but she did it so fast I couldn't even raise my hand to say hi =/

    I want to introduce myself and ask her out to lunch or something..

    How does this sound? "So your name is "X" did I say that correctly?
    and then go on about something like that's a beautiful name, then start a bit of conversation.. and maybe introduce myself in the mean time..

    Then when I have my items, walk away say bye, then turn back around if no one is around and ask her out to lunch?

    Any advice would be great..

    NP.

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    Default Re: I'm falling for this girl at the supermarket..

    Yeah....don't do that.

    First off, you do not want to be the guy waving at her across the supermarket. That's just creepy and nothing turns a girl off more than a creepy guy. A wink or nod at most, just something to let her know you remember her.

    Here's something I'm just going to tell you upfront. You are probably not going to get this girl, at least not the way you're proceeding right now. You've got her up on this pedestal and it's making you nervous. If you come off as nervous she's going to think you don't know how to interact with girls. In order to get over this nervousness, you need practice.

    ~You need to start reading some materials (there are dozens out there to choose from, and there are people here who can help you decide what kind of game is right for you).
    ~You need to practice opening, attracting, and building comfort with girls (there are more steps but those are the big ones).
    ~And lastly, you need to get your inner game squared away (inner game is your self confidence, your view of yourself and what you deserve to get from a girl).

    This is going to take time.

    And sadly, the more time you spend practicing the more she's going to lose interest and think that you weren't interested at all, assuming she really has noticed you. My advice, go to a different supermarket. Then when you think you're ready, give her a shot. Hopefully by then you'll see her as just a regular girl like all the others you've opened up to this point. Chances are you won't. The truth is that right now you're learning all this to get her, which means she's still on that pedestal and you're still going to be nervous, and your game will suffer. So as I said before, you probably won't get this one.

    But you will be able to get the next cute supermarket girl you see, and the one after that, and the hot redhead you work with, and that blonde you met on the street.

    Keep that in mind.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm falling for this girl at the supermarket..

    Bandit has a point! a good one. But the truth is he is missing one too. I've had a very similar incident happen to me that ended up working very well. I plaid the quite card.

    Don't go waiving to her in fact don't go acting like you know her name either. The best thing you can do is ask her why she has been looking at you so much. This will put her in the hot seat and without knowing if it is good or not she will try to respond. She will probably not be confident enough to say anything real. More like "oh I just was looking around and..."
    From here you have some choices either raise an eyebrow in disbelief and stare for a second or since this may be a little too confident for your style tell her it is a shame. From there start idol chit chat. If you can make her laugh but not a lot. Before the conversation starts slowing down tell her you need to get going. Displaying a false time restraint, tell her you would like to continue talking to her and if she can, she should come to "x" coffee shop at 7pm. Give whatever time it is plus about 3 or 4 more hours (It needs to look spontaneous and not like you are working around when she is working). More than likely she can't. If she can't don't think anything of it just say "well it was good talking to you see you next week". If she try's to come up with another time to meet as long as it's not that day go for it. If it is that day only the time you gave her is doable.

    This whole thing works with confidence. Not a lot but enough so she thinks you have a spine.

    I would bet she will not be able to and won't be confident enough to suggest a later time but that's ok. The next time you see her she will know you though! Then you can ask here how she's been and if she would like to get thjat coffee still. Just be persistant but not pushy or too available.

    Just think of this to chill your nerves before hand

    NO girl doesn't want to be swept off her feet by a great guy! And if you're this worried about talking to her you're a great guy! But your the PRIZE.

    Hope that helps
    Fat Kyle


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