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    Default Getting rid of a "friend with benefits"

    Hey guys. There is this girl who ive been hanging out lately with and i played some strong game on her, i was being cocky and funny, also built a strong us-frame with her, Kino escalated a lot. She has been giving me IOIs and tomorow im gonna give her a tennis lesson. However there is this guy who she once mentioned as a friend while talking to me, but their convos on social networks are not those you expect from normal friends. The guy is away for two weeks and they write eachother everyday saying how they miss eachother and even closing the convo with "ily". Im not sure what is between them but I hope it doesnt ruin my chances of going out with her. She is being super nice. Should I do anything about it or should I just continue with my game?
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    Default Re: Getting rid of a "friend with benefits"

    Just continue your game. Trying to run interference is going to be counter productive and it's not a good move anyway. Your game just has to be better than his, and If you really want in you have to be super flirty and play up the Kino a ton. If she thinks you could just be friends she's gonna believe that's all you are
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    Default Re: Getting rid of a "friend with benefits"

    Hi DB,

    At this stage you should carry on gaming her. You guys aren't mutually exclusive, which means you can game other girls as well. I wouldn't call her on it either - just understand and accept that there is a possiblity that she is involved with other men as well and if there happens to be another pretty girl who wants a tennis lesson...

    Hope this helps
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