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    Exclamation Most important getting ex back

    Alright everyone,

    Listen up. This will most likely the most important post i put on here, and whoever answers I will answer all of your posts and any other questions you want any time.

    I had a gf, for 17 months on and off. For part of this time i lived abroad, and i madeout with another girl, and told her about it ( dumb of me i guess). When i got back from being abroad, we hooked up a few times, but you could tell the ball was in her court...

    We kept talking all throughout senior year, and even into my first year, this year of college, up until march..but she's had a boyfriend, and he tried to tell me off, and so did she, but because of him. now i just became friends with her on facebook, and i really need the best of the best advice on how to go about this...i can't mess up this time.

    I've been trying to make this work for over 2 1/1 years. No i don't have goggles on, but I've never stopped loving this girl.

    What should I do/ send her?

    Regards,

    DandyLion

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    Default Re: Most important getting ex back

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    Alright everyone,

    Listen up. This will most likely the most important post i put on here, and whoever answers I will answer all of your posts and any other questions you want any time.

    I had a gf, for 17 months on and off. For part of this time i lived abroad, and i madeout with another girl, and told her about it ( dumb of me i guess). When i got back from being abroad, we hooked up a few times, but you could tell the ball was in her court...

    We kept talking all throughout senior year, and even into my first year, this year of college, up until march..but she's had a boyfriend, and he tried to tell me off, and so did she, but because of him. now i just became friends with her on facebook, and i really need the best of the best advice on how to go about this...i can't mess up this time.

    I've been trying to make this work for over 2 1/1 years. No i don't have goggles on, but I've never stopped loving this girl.

    What should I do/ send her?

    Regards,

    DandyLion
    I had a similar situation a couple months ago, where I found an old Girlfriend on FB. This was one of those girls that I never forgot.... and it was 20 years ago that we were together.

    So I treated it like a combination of a new approach AND a re-initiating message.
    Obviously we already had familiarity with each other & some history together. So I just sent her a playful, fun, semi-flirty/ semi-smarty pants message to reconnect.

    I don't remember exactly what I said to her, but it was along the lines of, "Holy Crap! Hey Steph, it's been 20 years... That means I have a LOT of time to make up for, as far as picking on you & giving you a hard time goes!! What on EARTH have you been doing? Holla back & let's catch up!"


    Again, that's not the exact message, but it was along those lines.

    Basically have a confident & positive attitude, & start with reconnecting in general as the springboard.
    Then, you can transition into rebuilding rapport/attraction.



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