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    Default Re: No contact with ex girlfriend success stories

    Just found out today by texting her that she hasn't had a boyfriend for awhile..was texting for a little and she gave a few IOIs but then it broke off...

    any critiques?


    Me: I want you to know i am really happy for you. Maybe we were meant to go down different paths for a reason


    Her: Aww thanks...happy for what?

    Me: For the way things have gone with your relationship..he must be great if he can make you happy

    Her: I'm not in a relationship

    Me: Well this is awkward..haha since when?

    Her:a while ago

    Me: 4 25 09

    her: what about that?

    me: hmm doesnt ring a bell?

    her: yeah but i mean what about it? like why did u bring it up/

    me: what does it mean to you?

    her: what do you mean?

    me: 4 25 09 does it bring back bad or good memories?

    her:why?

    me: i am curious to know after all these years...

    her:u dont forget the past but i dont dwell on it

    me: haha then think of all the good times..like when (memory)

    me: i thought about your mom the other day. do you talk to her about me at all anymore?

    her:no i mean time has by passed by so why would i i mean its not like youre mentioning me lol

    me:because she was awesome to me i miss her

    me: does she miss me?


    no response from her
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    Default Re: No contact with ex girlfriend success stories

    You're showing way too much interest. Example-
    Her: Aww thanks...happy for what?
    Me: For the way things have gone with your relationship..he must be great if he can make you happy. (You are talking about the other guy. You just switched off an attraction switch by bringing up other men and you let it be known that your probing to see if she is dating=beta move.) Alpha doesn't give a fark if she is dating or if 10 other alpha's are running a train, he has supreme confidence--there is no one with higher value then him. Trying a boyfriend destroyer without building comfort first, is counter-productive.
    Her: I'm not in a relationship (ioi)

    Me: Well this is awkward..haha since when? (You seem thrown off with how you responded. Instead you could say something like: "Whoa-quit throwing yourself at me!".

    Throughout your entire text you seemed way too invested. Asking questions about if her mom missed you was a low blow. Remember that women pay alot of attention to how you make them feel. You just made her feel guilty... I hope you take my critique positively. I'm not intending to insult you or make it seem like I'm a pimp from Mars. I'm just a guy that loves pussy and if I can help someone else, then so be it!
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    Default Re: No contact with ex girlfriend success stories

    Quote Originally Posted by liukang75 View Post
    You're showing way too much interest. Example-
    Her: Aww thanks...happy for what?
    Me: For the way things have gone with your relationship..he must be great if he can make you happy. (You are talking about the other guy. You just switched off an attraction switch by bringing up other men and you let it be known that your probing to see if she is dating=beta move.) Alpha doesn't give a fark if she is dating or if 10 other alpha's are running a train, he has supreme confidence--there is no one with higher value then him. Trying a boyfriend destroyer without building comfort first, is counter-productive.
    Her: I'm not in a relationship (ioi)

    Me: Well this is awkward..haha since when? (You seem thrown off with how you responded. Instead you could say something like: "Whoa-quit throwing yourself at me!".

    Throughout your entire text you seemed way too invested. Asking questions about if her mom missed you was a low blow. Remember that women pay alot of attention to how you make them feel. You just made her feel guilty... I hope you take my critique positively. I'm not intending to insult you or make it seem like I'm a pimp from Mars. I'm just a guy that loves pussy and if I can help someone else, then so be it!
    Yeah i pretty much blew up on her and told her i'm done chasing her and then apologized...fml
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    Default Re: No contact with ex girlfriend success stories

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    Yeah i pretty much blew up on her and told her i'm done chasing her and then apologized...fml
    That's good man! Good for you! You shouldn't apologize for that, but still, you're getting over her, and that's what's important!

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    Default Re: No contact with ex girlfriend success stories

    T-mal and white dragon are giving you excellent advice.Take it from me if you want a little advice as i have gotten my ex back 4 times and the last time she was engaged to be married and i still got her back.Be super cool,go no contact,have a little bit of mystery about you and also try if u can to make her a little jealous.By that i mean make her feel like she is about to lose you or that she isnt the only woman you can get.If you can stay cool and find anpretty lady that will go out with you try to go to a place where your ex hangs and if she sees or hears about you and this other woman i garauntee she will be wondering about you again

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    Default Re: No contact with ex girlfriend success stories

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    i think whitedragon's advice can be tailored to fit all of our situations.

    If you love someone, set them free. If they love you, they'll come back one day.
    They never come back. It happens or it doesn't. You need to learn to be mature and move on. Lust is exponential and in fact love is too. Life goes where it can, not where it should. Going backwards is second best at least. Go forwards - that is being no.1.


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