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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Just texted the blabber about fake plans to take this girl I met downtown last Thursday out to a formal dinner. We'll see if he relays the message. Sounding doubtful. The only other way to let her know is if she asks what I am doing.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    10 minutes after sending text to blabber she texts me asking if I want to grab some coffee. I am going to wait 10 minutes then text back. "sorry I can't, going to (some fancy diner) with so-and-so who I met last week downtown at the bar" She'll probably just say "K" or something along the lines of "have fun" "who is this?!" or "good job" I'll update with her response and what happens though.

    Was going to add we can go on Thursday if you want but that would reassure her that this made up girl means nothing and she is still in control of me and can have me whenever she wants to I will wait on the Thursday thing until later this week if at all.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    "ooooh fancy smancy, good luck" was her reply.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Oh and my text just said. "can't, getting ready and formal for my dinner tonight with the girl I met downtown last week" (I met a girl downtown last week, told my buddy, he told her)

    So now I need to figure out where to go from here. Do I wait for her to text me to hangout, do I text her, how long should I wait if I'm supposed to text her. etc. etc.

    Sorry for the multiple posts. I think way too much into things if you couldn't already tell. Which might be a good thing if I study woman. Thinking too much, being smart, and studying the human mind at school, can be a good manipulator and combo on women.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey Bud,

    You have a point in that you don't have much time. So I would go ahead and freeze her out for a little bit, and when she contacts you then you can setup your meeting downtown with your friends and bring her along. The best thing you can do, because of time constraint, is invite her out and and use some push/pull techniques at the club/bar. Talk to other girls and be an overall fun guy. If she talks to other guys at the club/bar don't react at all!! its normal for girls to do this whether their shit testing you or not. After a fun night out, just calibrate where your both at and proceed accordingly. One more thing I STRONGLY suggest reading is Vin de Carlos Escalating ladder... Just search it, and READ it! It will advise you on when to go for the kiss and escalate from there. Also, don't worry about what SHE wants(i.e. going home with a prude, or with her man who will bang her). Just do your thing and be a little selfish. Girls like that. She exists for your enjoyment.

    Most importantly bro, is just to have fun. You are going away to school in a couple weeks. Your going to meet SO many girls regardless of whether your GIRL now moves away or not! You can always keep her around. When you start dating multiple girls or seeing them casually, your NEED for "that one girl" won't exist anymore and that will ultimately bring "that one girl" closer to you cause you don't come off as needy. You will naturally become ALPHA and girls will want you, cause you don't give a FUCK!..... Have fun man, DOnt think so much and good luck!!!!

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey Bud,

    NO worries. Let a day or two pass and wait for her to contact you. If she doesn't, because of the time constraint, you can throw her a random txt and meet up with her cause I can tell you both are really comfortable with each other and TELL her she can tag along to your fun plan Downtown with your friends.

    If she does contact you and ask about the date and question you etc...... just play it off and be funny and playful about it. and Then let her in on your plan to go Downtown. You'll be fine dude, one step at a time.


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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Yup. I am going to freeze her out tomorrow and possibly Wed. I feel like I should plan ahead for Thur in case the other guy has made plans with her Thur night or someone else does. I would love to just mention it now but that wouldn't be smooth when I'm supposed to be on a date.... and when I am trying to make her come to me. Like you said, gotta make it sound casual even though I am trying to get out of the friend zone.

    I am great when in a group of friends so if she does come along it will def impress her to see how outgoing and carefree I am and that I am not revolving around her. You are totally right too, I am going back to school (although not away) I will meet many new girls and even if she does move away that's her loss. At the end of the day if she does move at least I will be content that I tried. The only thing I will regret is not having sex with her since I have wanted to for awhile, BUT I have a few weeks, we'll see what happens with that! I am young and should not be thinking so much and should just be going out downtown every week and hitting on different woman each week! Got the rest of my life to have a girlfriend really....

    Read the escalation ladder. Very interesting and informative. Will def use it although probably won't have to knowing her and how she gets when she drinks. Which is one thing to worry about downtown, she gets a bit....crazy. Starts arguing with me or others, or gets really flirty and might end up meeting another guy but hey if she does she does. Will be an obvious sign that she isn't worth my time. Usually she is pretty good with sticking with me when at bars though except we usually go to smaller ones, downtown is a big step, if I do "climb the ladder" privacy will be an issue since I don't live nearby and we will all be getting a ride from my bud. At the end of the night though I am sure I will leave a lasting impression, display my game and "bad boy side", and she will finally know my secret life outside of "Mr. daytime boring"and then I can pick up later in the week or make plans for the weekend for a quieter closer bar.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Also, I think not giving a fark really is the answer like you mentioned above. When you don't give a fark about the girl you automatically seem fun, seem like a badass, give the impression you can do better than her, and give the impression you don't want anything from her....which as farked up as it is draws woman closer to you.

    Old me (as of last week) was "Mr. I want a relationship, blah blah blah, I'm nervous around you because I want you to like me"

    New me is going to be "I don't really give a fark, let's have fun we are young" Then if something happens it happens. I am just going to pretend like I am a player and in turn maybe I will become one. Usually I am embarrassed, shy, or scared to use the techniques I know such as Push Pull and etc. fark it; what's the worst that could happen. Especially with her. I am already in the friend zone the only thing worse that could happen is her not wanting to talk at all which is her loss.

    That is the upside of being out downtown at the bar. We are in person and will both be drunk and are in a good fun atmosphere. I am just going to heavily imply that we are both single and should have fun, we will be downtown living it up. If she brings up the other guy I can just say something like " Oh yeah....I forgot you're in a relationship with him....oh wait" basically make her sound like a dud then freeze her out and talk to other girls if I so wish to. At the end of the night though he isn't there and I am. Will most likely workout, and if he calls and she goes outside to answer....who cares. Like you said, she is there for my enjoyment.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    & is it going to be a problem if I bring her out with just me and my other guy buddy? Or her and my two guy buddies? Might make her think that I am not the player that she thinks I am. Then it also ruins a perfect guys night out having her tag along. Unless I get a bigger group which is unlikely for a Thur night unfortunately.

    Maybe I should just take her out solo? That would require the train and make it seem more formal though. She probably would not decline though. The train is the only thing that bothers me. It is not safe to bring a girl of her stature that late on a train and would look bad as well if I'm trying to impress her. My car just isn't reliable enough and I don't know downtown well enough to drive slightly buzzed with the parents car. That's where my buddy comes in but ^^^^^

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    & I'll probably reply with something like "you would of loved it" or "it was just your kind of place" I don't want to seem too needy and say "you would have loved it we should go sometime" I guess I"ll just keep it to the bar for now and then maybe after we go downtown see if she had a good enough time to go back with me on another date privately and to dinner before hand.


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