Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Page 3 of 6 FirstFirst 123456 LastLast
Results 21 to 30 of 51
Like Tree4Likes

Thread: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

  1. #21
    inter1010 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,192, Level: 19
    Level completed: 92%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 14.3%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    SF
    Posts
    110
    Points
    1,192
    Level
    19
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    59

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey Bud,

    Dude!!!!! Im liking your frame of mind!!! PLEase Reread your last 3 posts whenever you feel down about or are over thinking your situation. Apply that Mindset and you will have success.... Guaranteed!...


    I agree with what you said:

    "New me is going to be "I don't really give a fark, let's have fun we are young" Then if something happens it happens. I am just going to pretend like I am a player and in turn maybe I will become one. Usually I am embarrassed, shy, or scared to use the techniques I know such as push pull and etc. fark it; what's the worst that could happen. Especially with her. I am already in the friend zone the only thing worse that could happen is her not wanting to talk at all which is her loss. "....

    This is perfect!!!

    Also, I think its better if you bring your two buddies, or one buddy. This way you will have some social proof and can always have your buddies dhv you and attract a crowd which you can work off of. As well as provide a ride and allow you to drink without worrying about driving. Also, I agree on NOT taking the train in Chicago. Ive been on that thing when I was there and it was definitely not the safest situation. So, take your buddy/buddies. Just have a good time yourself and don't worry so much about HER, and she will follow your lead.

    Your gonna be fine bro.. Good luck and just have fun!! also, don't worry so much about your living situation or money situation. Take her home to your parents house and do it there. Cover her mouth with your hand. It will probably turn her on. If it bothers you it will bother her. If you don't give a fuck, you can live in a dumpster and she'll be fine with it..... Cheers

    Inter1010

  2. #22
    freestylpolaris is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 250, Level: 4
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    80
    Points
    250
    Level
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    18

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    She texted me as soon as she could this morning saying "hey cutie! How was your date with the downtown diva? "

    I think this is a good sign?

  3. #23
    freestylpolaris is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 250, Level: 4
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    80
    Points
    250
    Level
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    18

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    I'm either going to say "I'm still on it" or "It was fun! Was your type of place )

  4. #24
    Tyrone1991's Avatar
    Tyrone1991 is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 7,440, Level: 57
    Level completed: 45%, Points required for next Level: 110
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social5000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    1,110
    Points
    7,440
    Level
    57
    Thanks
    12
    Thanked 23 Times in 22 Posts
    Rep Power
    363

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    "it was great, dropping her home now! i'll talk to you later."

    and then don't intiate
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

  5. #25
    freestylpolaris is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 250, Level: 4
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    80
    Points
    250
    Level
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    18

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Alright guys.....we are entering the fun part of this. The in-between phase that will determine what happens. My whiny ass bitchy self is no more, "I care about her, I would so anything for her" that is a thing of the past UNTIL I get the mutual actions back. Why degrade myself; it's not attractive for me to just give myself to her without a challenge, it shows weakness and makes it seem like I will just give up on things. Hell, I'm 21; acting like I don't give a fark has actually made me realize maybe I shouldn't. The time apart from her while Freezing Her Out has made me less clingy as well & I am LOVING her text responses (will post below). She was interfering in my life and I think that is why I was so pathetic game wise. I dropped my life to go hangout with her only for her to hang out with the dude at night. I am now doing my usual routine, gym, work, yard work, going out with the guys and it's helped a ton. Going out with the guys and seeing the zillion other girls out there really has helped. It makes me feel like an alpha male "hey I got this girl back home I can just not give a fark about, she can hang with that one dude doing the same old sh1t over and over again while I'm with 30-40 girls at the club doing different adventurous things every night" (girls love adventure so this will actually in turn draw her closer to me while I am out enjoying myself! I found out by reading some of mystery's stuff)

    She had me wrapped around her finger and with the help of this forum as well as my other guy friends things look like they are changing. People on here might just think it's text but to me the advice I have received has really changed my mindset; especially with this girl and things are taking a total 180. Here is what happened today; post her believing I was downtown on a formal date at a formal diner (used your advice inter, know she loves food, formality, downtown and used that against her)

    "Hey cutie. (she has never said that before to me) How was your magical evening with your downtown diva? "

    "It was fun! Was your type of place"

    "Oh yeah? Where did you go?"

    "Fransesca's on Taylor, it is a formal Italian diner "

    "oh, yeah, I have heard of that. There is one [here and there]. They have really good food and a price to match! Haha"

    (I don't reply, my friend Matt "coincidentally" texts me about it who blabs everything to her; he is a mutural friend of ours)

    " How was downtown girl brah?"

    "It was really fun"

    " You didn't kiss her did you... -.-"

    "did more than that brotha!"

    "well you gotta give me details, that's male bonding!!"

    "I thought you were too busy to care"

    "I have a moment. Does she shave?!"

    I wait 3-4 hours before replying with:

    ""

    Right before I sent the to the mutual guy friend of ours I get these texts from her 10 hours after the above texts from her. (obviously she has this on her mind if she is texting me 10 hours later about it and it is bugging her, most likely jealousy.)

    "No further details for me hmmm mister popular?"
    "ladies man!"
    "haha"

    I reply with:

    "how was your day"

    I talked to my buddy who is good with women and he said I should just send that so it makes her question the date even more. It makes her say to herself "wtf" and leaves the mystery there instead of answering her question and satisfying her with an answer. The other things I was going to send were:

    " Only girls that I take on dates get to know about it (was questioning the , didn't know if I wanted to sound playful or serious, sounding playful may be too forward and she will believe she has me wrapped around her finger once again, decided against that text since either way she might get the wrong impression that I want to take her out and that my date with the one girl was not significant)"

    OR

    " All I can say was it was really fun, I don't kiss and tell"

    She never replied to the how was your day text, it probably pissed her off. Knowing her she will text me tomorrow as usual. Makes me feel like I could have sent something better. SHE DID send it at night though which is unusual since she is always hanging with the other guy. Looks like "I can't talk to you at night" is a thing of the past. Let me know what you guys think of the texts and where I should go from here.

    I was thinking some in person push pull time (she asks for a hug and I playfully say something like: Whoa! Hands off, this sh1t isn't free! She wants to cuddle, I do for a minute or two and back away saying "this is all friends get, sorry") and invite her casually into the social club bar setting downtown. "Hey if you wanna have some real fun Fri tag along with me and some people downtown". Been reading up on some of Mystery's stuff. Comfort - Fun - Isolation - seduction - LMR - sex. Keep in mind I want this girl around for more then sex. With her though sex is a key ingredient of a relationship and there is no chance in hell she is even going to consider a relationship with me without a test run while she has a perfectly capable guy pleasuring her right now.

  6. #26
    freestylpolaris is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 250, Level: 4
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    80
    Points
    250
    Level
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    18

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Tyrone, I probably should have went with your advice or the text saying "I'm still with her" but hey that's why I am here, to learn. I don't think the texts her and I DID have went too badly but you can be the judge of that.

  7. #27
    freestylpolaris is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 250, Level: 4
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    80
    Points
    250
    Level
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    18

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Also, Inter: it looks like we are going to have a group for downtown if it all works out. My buddy knows the situation I am in with this chick and is giving me advice as well. He even went as far as saying "don't worry about a place to have sex I will take care of it" haha. He used to live downtown so maybe he has connections with ex-guy roomates.

    & one more important detail; this is the kinda chick that has NO girl-friends. Also when you bring her out to a club or new bar she is very shy at first and will be clinging on me. If I play my cards right with ioi's, Isolation, and Push Pull it will be a breeze.(holding her hand when it's overly crowded; acting like the protector so she feels safe, that kinda shit) The only thing I will be worrying about are other guys talking to her. I get jealous easily and quite honestly she is a catch, guys will be looking at her the moment she walks in and if she is drunk she will be talking to them like crazy if I am not. The thing is I can not focus ALL of my attention on her otherwise she once again thinks she has me when she wants me. If I don't she might end up talking to other guys though. I knowthat if that happens I will need to talk to other girls to make it seem like I don't care; will still suck though

  8. #28
    freestylpolaris is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 250, Level: 4
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    80
    Points
    250
    Level
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    18

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    and now that I think of it maybe "how was your day" maybeeee wasn't the best option...I was at the gym, on a pre-workout stimulator and was really in the "I don't give a fuck" Mindset. So I said fuck it, I'll just say "how was your day" my buddy makes sense that by ignoring her ?'s it will throw her off and really....I don't really care is what I was thinking. Which maybe is the right mindset to have all the time. A simple "yup" reply or just a "Hey =)" might have been better though. I hope she actually doesn't think I WANT to literally know how her day was. That will show I care, about her day.... that will show weakness.

  9. #29
    jtorres2_1 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 595, Level: 11
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 5
    Overall activity: 16.3%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    59
    Points
    595
    Level
    11
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    31

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey Bro, great frame and 180 turn, i approve.

    I didn't read all your gigantic thread but it seems like you're doing great. I liked the part about push pulling on the hugs and sh1t. Real men escalate, AFCs are teddy bears that can be picked up, hugged and then thrown away at will. From this day forward this will never happen to you..


    Just some pointers if she does hang out with you in the club:

    - You say she has no girl friends she can bring along, use this to your advantage. Got any female friends that you can bring along?? (if not get one quick ). If she shows up and see you with a girl in your arm you will trigger jealousy swtiches and maybe preapproved attraction switches. You will also leave her with the idea that you truly have changed.

    - She is 100% most definitively going to ask you about the downtown girl and why shes not here. Tell her she was busy and couldn't make it in the most casually "idontgiveash1t" way possible. If you bring in another girl shes also going to ask you about her, tell her shes a nice girl who is fun to hung out with.

    - If some other guys come and try to game her DO NOT stand around like a teddy bear and wait until she finishes talking/flirting to them. Tell her "i'll leave you two alone to talk" and go game with some other girl (the friend again comes in handy here) she will notice this and will get distracted on the other guys. Whatever you do, don't let it shine you're getting jealous about some other dude, any guy would get jealous but remember PUAs are the exception to every rule .

    Best of luck

  10. #30
    inter1010 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,192, Level: 19
    Level completed: 92%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 14.3%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    SF
    Posts
    110
    Points
    1,192
    Level
    19
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    59

    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey Bud,

    Looks like you got this all taken care of!!....

    I think you did great in terms of how you handled the way you told her about your date. And don't sweat the txt of " How was your day" .. I think it was good because she was basically feening for information on WHAT HAPPEND on your date and all you gave her was "How was your day".... haha that was GOOD!! Its like your HIDING information from her, and thats why she didn't respond back!

    About downtown night out; Don't sweat it!... Take her there and lead her. If she is shy, show her around and be ALPHA. Once she starts to loosen up, let her go where she wants. Let her talk to guys and do her thing. Of course, even though you might get jealous YOU CANNOT REACT! Laugh it off and do your thing to, like talking to other girls. Have her SEE you having a good time. The more people you talk to and are social with, the more she's going to think your the FUNNEST guy there!.... You don't even have to know anyone besides your friends. Just open sets of guys/girls and be SOCIAL!! it does wonders. You already know how to implement all the push/pull and attraction switches in her, so go for it!... Reread Vin de Carlos escalation ladder even though you think if she's drunk she won't give a fuck!!! Just in case, haha.... and like I said earlier, don't worry where you take her for sex. Just don't let it bother you and it won't bother her. Even if you take her to your parents house, that might be great because the morning after she might think you do this all the time and you don't care that you live at home still! PLus it will make you different!!.....CHee rs bro,

    Inter1010


Page 3 of 6 FirstFirst 123456 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Need some advice. Long post and first post
    By striker12 in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 13
    Last Thread: 06-23-2012, 12:43 PM
  2. help required - odd situation post-sex, not sure what move to make
    By Quantum1985 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 04-17-2012, 03:53 PM
  3. How do I make the girl I am seeing into my girlfriend?
    By Rizzle in forum General Questions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 06-17-2011, 10:27 PM
  4. emergency.. cuckold thoughts??? long post
    By Rippemapart in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 04-09-2011, 04:18 PM
  5. Second Post - Jealous Girlfriend Opener
    By daniel3:16 in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 08-08-2008, 01:04 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com