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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey Bud,

    Its what were here for!!! I know what you mean about "NOt knowing what to do when your freezing out a chick" . Im currently doing it now and its driving me crazy!! You just have to breath and let time pass. I also created a post just now asking people how they "COPE" when freezing out a girl. Besides the average answer of "Go out and meet other chicks", I am curious what people do.

    Wish you the best

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    I don't know about you but I've just been going out with the guys, going to really busy events downtown, other events, and going to the gym to freeze her out and just to take my mind off her while staying sane. & why not take your own advice and "just not give a fark" or at least pretend not to.

    It's a farked up situation still with her and I and I"m vowing to care about it less now that school is starting and until this other guy gets out of my way. She states that it is over with him but I do not believe that at all. It's really hard for me to trust her and feel comfortable around her when she is constantly lying about this dude among other things.

    We have started fooling around again so we'll see where things go. Probably could have had sex with her this last week; she was feeling around my belt buckle in a flirty manner and throwing all sorts of suggestions out there but I just wasn't feeling it. Her parents were about to be home any minute and I got the feeling I was just there for comfort again since things weren't going well with the other guy. I guess I just don't like being 2nd choice and lowering myself by giving her what she wants.

    She's still really suspicious about telling me where she goes at night so I'm assuming it's with that guy. I guess it's a good thing if she is trying to hide it from me but at the same time shady. It kinda sucks that I am her backup guy right now but once he moves I'll see how things go if she stays and if I don't feel anything and still just feel like her "spare" guy I can always just dump her or stop seeing her, no biggie.

    Within this last week or two I have definitely been turned off by her actions and have been thinking about her a ton less. Or maybe I am just finally coming to my senses now that I am busy again.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey bud,

    Ya man, its tough but it just takes some time with no contact. And those feelings go away, then you can think straight.haha. I still hold that "don't give a fuck" frame, but obviously it sucks on the inside.

    Also, Im glad your seeing this girl for what she is. She's probably a great girl if your attracted to her, but she's kinda crazy. I have a girl on the back burner now, and even though I still fuck her, I kind of get he feeling she knows she's 2nd on my book but she's ok with it. I never lead girls on, Ive always said from the start that we can "do what we do" but I cannot have a gf right now. SHe was cool with it. ....

    Just keep doing what your doing, If I were you I'd find another girl your into and then come back and fuck the crazy chick. That way your not going to have so much feelings..... But be careful cause crazy girl might catch a lot of feelings ..haha good luck

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Yeah I def need a few backburner girls. Funny thing is that I probably talk to at least 10 great looking girls I just never considered being more than that. With that said I am going to try to be more now.

    Be careful with your 2nd girl, even though she says she's cool with it we both know she probably wants more.

    Crazy girl is for sure going to want to be more than what we are if that guy leaves. At that point I will have to decide if I even want that or not. I think I only want her so bad right now because she is unattainable and I think she is SO sexy. I guess it's just a matter of time to see what happens with her and until then I am going to have to try not going crazy. Either way in Sept it will be settled.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Hey bro i just wanted to chime in and say you have a great positive outlook that will bring you good things in the future.

    Too many guys i see just wallow in their own pity when bad times hit, it just ends them in a worse place.

    You said things were escalating the other night? Did you test for compliance? I suggest Freezing Her Out a little while like a few weeks, go back escalate, see how she complies and adjust accordingly. If you get out to make out with her then great, if not then just say "ok" act like nothing happened and definitely freeze her out for longer and go on with things. New girls, new adventures, if we lived in the same city i would definitely wing you.

    Keep it up, you're doing good. You already know more than me at 21.

    Best of luck

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Yeah the only reason I can move on so quickly is because I've been fucked over so many times haha. You learn from your mistakes and I have wallowed so many times and been a little bitch and it doesn't get you any where and you know what....girls don't find it attractive and guys don't wanna be around you so what's the point. Granted I am not completely giving up on this girl I just am wasting WAY too much time on her when I live in fucking Chicago where there are tons of beautiful women especially girls my age in certain college areas. She is going to keep hanging out with that one guy doing boring same old shit over and over again...fine...I'll go downtown to different places every time with awesome groups of people and meet more and more people and girls

    It's a win win. I don't waste my time on her and if things don't work out I will still be enjoying life and meeting new women. At the same time she will become extremely jealous, probably want me even more, and I'll just be so sucked up in the nightlife I'll just automatically not even care about her. (until the next day when I sober up and am sitting home alone haha then rinse and repeat)

    I guess the main reason I am so attracted to her is because I am bored alot of the time and she lives a block away and is also bored. It's a good match. When I am out constantly I rarely think about her because I am so busy having fun and because her life is so much more bland than mine; I know she isn't having nearly as much fun as I am.

    In a year or two when I have a good job and actually LIVE downtown and not in the suberbs shit is going to get insane. I went from being a 105lb 6 foot guy with no game to an athletic build guy with decent game and I still have a lot to learn but I think when you start from the complete bottom you become stronger. When you work hard to get where you are it is so much more worth it. You can also get over things easier because you are used to denial....and then when you succeed you feel like the absolute shit. It is like all the pros say....practice practice practice. You are going to get turned down but there are so many more women out there and that's probably the most important thing I have taken away from this experience so far.....It is not the end of the world if I do not end up with this girl....a matter of fact I have been having so much fun meeting new women and going downtown with my friends that I could care less either way and kinda feel like I would be tied down if I got in a relationship with her!

    When shit gets you down you just gotta go out with your buddies to a populated area. Even if you don't talk to women the atmosphere just gets you in such a better mood and makes you realize a lot and just how many people are out there. That is the biggest difference in my life I have made. Instead of sitting inside alone wallowing I go out, or I go to the gym, or I do something. I kinda thought to myself "if this girl is getting me so depressed and I'm wasting so much time on her WHEN she probably doesn't give me 1/4 the time or 1/4 the care I give her what is the point until she does?"

    Anyways after ignoring several of my texts since we were supposed to hangout and she blew that off as well she just texted me. "I'm all yours tomorrow morining what do you want to do" Granted she just did get the results of her biopsy today and was probably busy with that. I am just going to essentially say "hang out in the back room" maybe with a little more text than that; a smiley or winky here and there haha (backroom is where we have been fooling around as of late)

    There def was compliance Jtorres. She was touching my belt buckle and saying things like "you're packing I can tell" I gave her a back rub and she said "ooooh you can rub me wherever you want to" and when I left she was mentioning how she is on her 3rd week of birth control and her 3rd week she is always extremely horny and that she wanted me all to herself Wed (which unfortunately did not happen). I for sure should have gone for it when I was on the bed giving her a back rub but she kept mentioning her parents might be home any second and she brought up the other guy at one point and I was kinda like ehhh. After I left and I got home though I had the bluest balls a guy could probably ever have and was like "what the fuck just happened...." (at one point during the massage I told her my favorite sex position and re-enacted it but with clothes on of course) and that is always how it is with her...it's like we fool around one day...I say to myself "just give it another day or two so she can warm up to you" then that day or two never happens so you know what next time; possibly tomorrow I"m getting the deed done. Either sex with her will give me closure or make me want her more.

    Freezing Her Out works like crazy. I did for a few days and she texting me things like "I want to see you" and when she did she walked right up to me when I got to her house and inside and gave me one of those hugs where you can basically feel the heat coming from the chicks pussy. I backed off of course (Push Pull) she pulled me back. So freezing her out def works and will be happening more often. I just don't know if she is moving in Sept or not so want to AT LEAST have sex with her before she leaves which gives me less time to freeze

    If you are ever in Chicago next year hit me up. I plan on staying active on this forum after all of the great people that have helped me out and responded and have shared their wisdom.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Dude your the man!!!

    a little tip. Next time she's all horny and starts touching you like that a couple times, you should say "IF you do that again, I'm gonna take all your clothes off and do something to you!" ..... and just stare at her. Girls love pushing boundaries. she obviously wants you to do it. Also, remember even though she wants it bad, girls will always have some LMR (parents might come, talking about bf etc..) they can't help it. Its total Anti-slut defense...

    BUt remember she exists for you.... DO what you think is best and always leave a girl better than you found her. Thats a true PUA!!

    Inter1010

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Dude if things got as steamy as that you should have gone in for the kiss. If/when things get like this in the future, go in for more Kino Escalation, if theres no resistence then DO NOT HESITATE and go in for the kiss, also do what Inter says.

    When things are like that i don't think she'll deny you at all, but if she does its really better then the alternative. You don't really want to play blue balls for all eternity with this girl and we don't want you to do that.

    Best of luck

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    Haha well I'll have to think about using that. For any other girl for sure would but she's known me for 6 years ever since we started high school together and has been hanging around me too often; she will see through it I have a feeling. Basically she knows me to well and is too smart to fall for it in my opinion, I tried something similar a week ago and it just didn't work at all and made the situation awkward. I will probably just foreplay with her again but this time try to take it a step further. When she said "you can rub whatever you want" I should have for sure said "oh yeah? Anything?" Such an easy setup.

    I texted her back tonight basically not giving a fuck; because I don't, and just told her that we can hangout in that back room again because I'll be having a late night tonight as usual and will be tired in the morning from the night and that we can get some food and maybe swim or something and that if she doesn't text me early enough we won't hangout and I will enjoy my sleeping in

    Heavily implied I really don't give a fuck if I see her or not and that I am having a way better time than she is tonight. Gurantee she will ask me what I did tonight as soon as I see her tomorrow.

    Jtorres. I did go in for the kiss. We madeout for quite a bit, touched around on eachother, I talked about her tits for quite a bit, and was the first time we fooled around since a month ago before all the drama happened with the other dude. So def got somewhere just didn't feel like there was enough Kino to go from one month of awkward not doing anything with eachother straight to sex. Happens frequently with this girl. She is very on and off with her sex drive. Or maybe I just have bad luck and every time we escalate towards sex she either moves away or chooses other guys. Which is why I keep telling myself just to go for it but realistically in a normal situation you just don't go from one month of not doing anything ---to making out and touching around---to sex all within 20 minutes. I could have tried to go further but most likely would not have turned out well (especially in a day time situation where we were just chillin at her house without going out for dinner or drinks or hanging out prior) and would have showed weakness, that I want her more than she wants me. I needed to calibrate more for sure ( I have learned so much) , hopefully I will have more than an hour alone with her in a room today and will have more time to calibrate and flirt; especially now that we are back to fooling around.

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    Default Re: How to make this girl my girlfriend. Long post

    & I don't know about you guys but it is literally 10x harder for me to get in a sex mood during the day in the morning (when it's a girl I am not dating) than if it were at night. I feel like I should be down to do this chick whenever since I have been wanting to for so long but in the mornings it's just like....not my game time. I lose my game...which sucks because she always wants to hang out in the daytime usually! Because other guy is still around most likely! I do want to have sex with her asap in case she moves in Sept but then again feel like if I do I will just be crushing myself when she does move because let's face it....she lives a block away....I am obviously going to want to keep at it once I get a taste & until I find a new girl locally to bang she will be the only one. I enjoy the challenge of finding new women although.


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