okay, ive been dealing with this girl for about a year now, and i thought i had this in the bag from the start but she throws some mad curve balls.
background: This girl sat across the room from me in a class, we would constantly make eye contact or as she puts it "eye fark the sh1t out of each other" all class period. She would walk slow after class on purpose so i would catch up to her and talk to her. Naturally i got her phone number, we texted some, talked about how we stared at each other blah blah, there was a mutual attraction. We hung out a couple times, made out...turns out she was in the middle of a break up with her bf. So i backed off, she got back together with her bf, we quit talking.
It went a few months where we would talk, here and there but didn't hangout for a while.
They broke up for good in March and shes been single ever since. We have been hanging out more consistently since then , shes introduced me to some friends, I've met her mom (who loves me) and she does everything to show that shes attracted to me.
whats confusing me is: when we hangout everything is awesome and we flirt like crazy, but when we aren't together its hard to hold a conversation with her, and shes really flakey. She will make plans but they dont always happen.
also shes been trying to dhv, by saying things like "oh i would hate to be your GF" or i will neg her and she will joke and say "oh we cant do this anymore". Is this good??
Her friends have said she really likes me but is still kind of hung up on her ex. maybe scared to get into something new?
I don't make myself too available, text maybe twice a week, blow her off to regain my "Cat String Theory", but I've actually started to like this girl and might want to make a GF out of her. I think emotions are getting the best of me and I'm confused as sh1t! HELP!