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    juanverde is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How do i get this girl that I've been dealing with for a year

    okay, ive been dealing with this girl for about a year now, and i thought i had this in the bag from the start but she throws some mad curve balls.

    background: This girl sat across the room from me in a class, we would constantly make eye contact or as she puts it "eye fark the sh1t out of each other" all class period. She would walk slow after class on purpose so i would catch up to her and talk to her. Naturally i got her phone number, we texted some, talked about how we stared at each other blah blah, there was a mutual attraction. We hung out a couple times, made out...turns out she was in the middle of a break up with her bf. So i backed off, she got back together with her bf, we quit talking.

    It went a few months where we would talk, here and there but didn't hangout for a while.

    They broke up for good in March and shes been single ever since. We have been hanging out more consistently since then , shes introduced me to some friends, I've met her mom (who loves me) and she does everything to show that shes attracted to me.

    whats confusing me is: when we hangout everything is awesome and we flirt like crazy, but when we aren't together its hard to hold a conversation with her, and shes really flakey. She will make plans but they dont always happen.

    also shes been trying to dhv, by saying things like "oh i would hate to be your GF" or i will neg her and she will joke and say "oh we cant do this anymore". Is this good??

    Her friends have said she really likes me but is still kind of hung up on her ex. maybe scared to get into something new?

    I don't make myself too available, text maybe twice a week, blow her off to regain my "Cat String Theory", but I've actually started to like this girl and might want to make a GF out of her. I think emotions are getting the best of me and I'm confused as sh1t! HELP!

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    so a couple days ago, ^ this girl writes on my facebook. "ok, its going on 2 weeks now, this isnt like us lately. miss you "

    so that was nice of her, she texted me early the next morning to make plans but i had to work. I told her i would get ahold of her when i was out of work.... i texted her...no response. She got ahold of me the next day, said she was drunk without her phone but wanted to hangout when she got home. Didnt hear from her. I neg her about being a flake and she comes back saying " noooo i wanna hangoutttt" and i just didnt give a response.

    its really looking like shes the "emotionally unavailable" scenario.

    im going to freeze her out and wait for her to contact me, any advice?

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    This girl is a tease, if you wanna see what she is made out of next time try this.. when she messages you start to flirt, then say i just got the biggest craving for _______. (something she likes and describe it a bit ex. a delicious banana split with some hot fudge over top ahh)

    she will then most likely say omg me too

    then just say okay we are going, i'll pick you up in 15 for an ice cream date cya in a bit

    dont ask just tell her.

    then try some Kino push/pull when you're together.

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    juanverde is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    ive done stuff like that. I text her at weird times like 1am and say we should get ice cream just to get a reaction, and shes usually down for anything. But it goes in spurts, she will be all over me for a few days then we will go a few weeks without hanging out.

    everytime we get together im testing Kino. ill brush her legs or we'll sit touching arms, she will squeeze my leg or bump her butt into my junk. it goes back and forth.

    and then she flakes.

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    I have had girls like this before, and the truth is she has other guys that she is doing the same thing with.

    Just don't give her the time of day, if she wants to hang out at this point she start marking the effort. Be nice and flirty when she messages you.. Stop all signs that you are chasing her asap and find another chick to work some game on.

    Honestly if you ever hang out, and you're good at wording question - run the cube on her. In my experience you can really see some deep rooted issues she has.

    This girl seems annoying why would you want to GF her lol .. no one likes a flake.

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    juanverde is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    lol yes! it is annoying as fark, but she is really cool and the only girl i "like" at the moment.

    ill definitely work at bringing other girls into the picture.


    im at the point now ive quit all sorts of chasing her around, when she wants to hangout im sure she will get ahold of me... i just need the reassurance im making the right move, thanks!

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    yeah get more girls lol

    and really quitting is your only move. You wont get her by chasing her around the block. If she doesn't get a hold of you this way it is done for now. Keep dominate alpha status

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    for sure.

    ive quit talking to her a couple times, and she keeps coming back! ughhhhh.

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    sleep with her. she will fall in line.

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    Default Re: How do i get this girl!?

    Hey Bud,

    I know what your going through. Read my latest post. The best thing you can do is Freeze her out, and when she is salivating to meet up try and escalate sexually. Maybe cancel on her a few times before you actually meet. Achilies is right. Your only RIGHT move is to not chase her. She, like my one girl now, probably has 3 or 4 guys doing the same thing with her and she loves the attention. DOnt be like the others. Even if you occasionally slip, its ok, but don't confess your love for her. haha. She comes back to you cause you don't chase!!!....

    Also, always remember this when your dating or hanging out with a girl, and you think she is seeing someone else too. LET HER/ and HOPE for HER that she spends a lot of time with the other guy. Relationships don't last. The more she hangs with him, the faster it will be over. And the more you don't call/txt /chase her while she's doing her thing, the more ALPHA you appear and eventually she's going to want you to settle with her. Then its up to you if you want to or not. MOST GUYS don't know game!! When they get in with a girl they like, they usually blow it, cause they don't understand simple rules. And the reason you should GAME other girls when you like a girl is because it lessens the emotions you FEEL when your not with her. Its the same reason why girls don't act so needy. Cause they always have 3 or 4 guys they can call to numb their pain.... Its just female survival instincts. So don't get mad at girls for this, just understand it and use it to your advantage.

    CHeers,


    INter1010


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