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    fpk23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Dream girl has boyfriend - HELP BREAKUP

    Hi, this had to be my last resort ... I need help.

    There's this girl I met on the bus, she recognises me from 3 other bus journeys, I went with the direct approach. We've been texting and calling for about a week now and when I came up with meeting up, she finally tells me she has a bf. but she told me she doesn't care if he gets jealous. I feel like Ive known this girl my whole life. We've exchange do much similar interests and she told me she loves talking to me and I make her laugh but always hint as a friend. She accepts all my flirting like it's something she hasn't had. She's been with her bf for nearly 2 months and I'm meeting her in a week.

    I thought that if I go and tell her early about my intentions it will be easier than waiting but that's what 90% of my friend told me to do. She's too good to lose out on but I don't know how long I have to wait and I thought if I wait, i'll be in the friend zone like many other of my friends (girl). I know once I'm in the friendzone, im too scared to lose the friendship and it doesn't help.So should I just use the break up method straight on the first meet up? Also what should I do? I really need some help.Also sorry if this doesn't make sense, I'm fast typing on my phone

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    fpk23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Dream girl has boyfriend - HELP BREAKUP

    I also respect their relationship, it's just something I feel I can't lose out on...

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    Default Re: Dream girl has boyfriend - HELP BREAKUP

    Just act like she doesn't have a boy friend.If you bring it up and show some interest in it then it will feel like you find him as competition .If she brings it up ignore it and change the topic.If she brings it up again use a BF destroyer.Play some Kino games with her. Smell her neck.Go for the kiss close.

    You have to understand this. You will get only 1 chance/meeting before you fall into the friend zone. Use a kiss gambit and try to kiss her or lose her forever.

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    Default Re: Dream girl has boyfriend - HELP BREAKUP

    You need to escalate your Kino...try the mirror game where you put your palms together and you control her movements for a bit, if she complies then escalate into the ring story and you can hold her hand while you explain the meaning each finger and cold read her...if she doesn't wear rings just say this:

    You: Let's play a little game....I'm going to give you an imaginary ring, which finger do you put it on?
    Her: *pretends to put on ring*
    You: Oh interesting....do you know what each finger represents and why people wear rings on different fingers?
    *Start Ring Gambit*

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    Default Re: Dream girl has boyfriend - HELP BREAKUP

    I agree with threeonthree. Its only an obstacle if you fall into the frame that she made it one. Bring in your own obstacle that will supersede hers and make YOU the challenge instead of her and continue to escalate with Kino. A very basic obstacle would be to frame it that you have trouble getting close to someone because you have been hurt before. This speaks to many people which is why it helps to create a challenge and a connection with her.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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