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    Default need advice for my first experience on girl

    Hey everyone. Im new to this forums and my english is not good

    Heres my situation :
    I met her at my school reunion party. After dinner time i sat outside and was smoking. Then suddenly she came. Said hi and we were talking for an hour.

    Back from reunion ( out of city ) i didnt call or text her. 3 days after she texted me. And i found out thet her house is very near with me.

    After a week i asked her out to a movie. And she went out with me. We had a great time.
    On the second date. She asked me out. And we did touching but not much

    Adter 3 weeks i told her that i like her. But she said. She wants to enjoy what we had for now and lets see later. Tomorrow i asked her about this. And she was mad and she. told me to take it slow. She gave me a year before me and her make the decision. Then i told her i want 6 months. And she agreed. ( 6 months because i have to take my mom out of country because shes going to have a surgery ).

    its been 1 month aince we made that agreement. And we still hang out. Text. Flirt.touch. and shes more open to me. Im more open too.


    I wanna ask.
    Should i wait and take it slow ?
    is she friendzoning me ?
    What do i do next ?

    give me some advice. Harsh ones. Because this is my first. I never really like a girl before. Doesnt mean i stay home and do nothing. I usually go out with different people and frends.

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    anyone can give me advice ?

    update:
    she becomes really worried if something happened to me, but only when i told her. usually i like to give her riddle, like yesterday she texted me and asked what am i doing.

    me :i need to go out. ill talk to you soon
    her : where do u wanna go in the middle of the night ???? clubbing ? since its weekend.
    me : ( i answered 27 minutes later, because im looking for a taxi ) if you really wanna know, then come here. you wont like the place.
    her : what make u think i wont like the place ?
    me : you have to wait in the waiting room, all rooms and the people here wears white. and it smells weird.

    she didnt reply. but she texted me at 4am asked where am i. and told me to take care.

    i didnt reply. is that good or bad ?

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    look she's into you, the whole take it slow thing is a test most wemon know to well, if she says this don't get into an argument with her. she is trying to get you to seek her approoval, don't give in. also i think that you should look for ioi's, if she gives you more than three you should move in for a k-close. if you go too long without getting anywhere she will lose interest and friendzone you, so be decisive about it!

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    what do u mean her approval ? can u explain little bit for me ?

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    if you start begging her to take things faster it will look very needy, instead you should take things as fast as she is comfortable going, while never begging, if she tells you things are going too fast,back off a bit and then pick up the pace again

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    you're too dependent on an outcome here. just enjoy the process. if you can manage that, she'll be the one asking about status.

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    You definitely want to avoid trying to "make deals" with a woman about the status of the relationship. I've honestly never had a woman say to me that she wanted to wait a year, but if she did my first response would most likely be something like "Lol you're too cute" then just smile and continue escalating. Completely ignoring what she just said.

    Meteroa is right about her testing you, but I don't think she is doing it consciously sort of. It's a bit more tricky.

    Her saying she wants to wait a whole year is her basically telling you "I'm not comfortable or attracted enough to be your girlfriend." When a woman says for you to slow down, it just means you are showing too much interest too soon. Obvious right? What isn't so obvious is the fact that you can change that around within a week or maybe a few days if you play your cards right. She actually WANTS you to change her mind, but more on a subconscious level. While her conscious level is more put off by you showing too much interest.

    Learn the art of attraction. Learn it so well that you will reach a point where you are telling HER to slow down because she is showing too much interest. There are many great sources on this site and through your preferred search engine on understanding attraction.

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    okay i got 7 IOIs. i follow steps from this forum. and omg i guess im a total noob.

    now she begins to text me oftenly ( because we'are on holiday, and we go to different country ) and she starts to discuss about my interest on her, but indirect.

    today i met her at the airport, because she has to go back early. ( she has to stop at china before she goes back ) we met just 50 minutes. but when i touched her. she seemed happy and she hold my hands. she asked me out on a date when i get back home.

    so is this a good sign ?

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    Hey brilien,
    It sounds like to me from everything you have said that this girl is totally into you. I would text her sparsely from now until next time you see her in person. When you do see her in person, I would take her some place quiet, flirt, touch and Kino some more and just go in for the K close. It sounds like you are over thinking something that is already a done deal.

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    Default Re: need advice for my first experience on girl

    i agree with link777 you need to k-close her the next time you get a chance, good luck buddy


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