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Thread: I can never get a GF?

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    Default I can never get a GF?

    Ok, I have been able to get a girl to text me and hangout or whatever but when I want to date its a no go.. I seriously get stuck. How am I supposed to get to be more than friends stage? Am I supposed to kiss her? or what? I flirt my ass off. I am funny they laugh and whatever but I don't get more than that. What am I missing?

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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    If you too funny they arent taking you seriously as a male. Ease up on the comedy engage her in conversaton that'll lead to her to an emotional state. By doing this you connect with her on a more romantic level rather than comical one. Use your natural funny to establish yourself as alpha male of any given set. Good luck Amigo!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    Dont worrry, all guys suffer from this one way or the other. I do suffer from this sometimes, especially when I am just getting warmed up. You have to find the middle ground, not too funny and not too charming/romantic, find the just right spot which is a mixture of both.

    Also never approach a target as a potential GF. This happened once but I had approached this HB10, she was smoking. We danced, laughed, flirted, and made out. After getting her number I did something dumb. I told her lets go on a date the next day. That girl went from smiling and flirty to scared sh!tless. I never approach a girl like that ever again.

    Quote Originally Posted by aaron0377 View Post
    Ok, I have been able to get a girl to text me and hangout or whatever but when I want to date its a no go.. I seriously get stuck. How am I supposed to get to be more than friends stage? Am I supposed to kiss her? or what? I flirt my ass off. I am funny they laugh and whatever but I don't get more than that. What am I missing?
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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    all i had to do is read the title to see your proublem, you're a beta male, time to be an alpha male, i suggest you start your research there
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    So,what you guys are saying is be funny but not ridiculous. Plus don't ask her out just let it happen? Then I have a question when do I wait until I ask her out?

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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    I think you are approaching things all wrong. You asked how do I get past the just friends stage. That's where you already failed.

    You built too much of a connection - you were too nice.

    Keep a bit of an edge, dont try too hard thats is the mistake most make and it's fatal.

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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    You can be funny..but not over do it. Being playful is more important...and to get a girl, you have to connect with her emotionally!
    Once they have already shown interested in you that is!

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    Default Re: I can never get a GF?

    Yeah dont just act the fool all the time. Use one liners based on something she said in conversation.


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