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    aaron0377 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    I told this chick I have known for a long time that I don't want to be just friends. I dated her in the past she moved and came back. But she is with another guy. I did hangout with her recently then a few days ago I said I don't want to be just friends. Is that the right move? and what else should I do?

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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    What was her response? And even though she has a BF, how does she approach you? Does she flirt with you, is she touchy touchy with you?

    True story: I have a friend that I told her the exact same thing and we got into an argument over it because she wanted to be friends but it was out of convenience rather than her true actual desires and I knew it. I kept our conversation and interaction on a flirting/attraction level and she did come around. Unfortunately, I was an azz about it and I end up telling her that it was best if we did become solely friends because I realised that she was truly a nice girl and she deserved a nice guy.


    Quote Originally Posted by aaron0377 View Post
    I told this chick I have known for a long time that I don't want to be just friends. I dated her in the past she moved and came back. But she is with another guy. I did hangout with her recently then a few days ago I said I don't want to be just friends. Is that the right move? and what else should I do?
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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    She got mad and asked why? and she said things where fine as friends and we where close friends and maybe I'll talk to her again. When we where together she hugged me when I seen her we flirted our asses off and talked about her,her life not to much about her bf, only that he might have cheated on her or whatever,. She hugged me like 2 times goodbye the day I left usually for 10+ sec's..

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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    As I said in your other thread. Dont approach the situation as you want to make her your girlfriend. Approach it as you just want to have fun, and whatever happens, happens. If fun includes making out and doing stuff together, then so let it be. But dont approach nice and want to take her on a date and stuff. That will creep her out. I am talking from experience here.

    Quote Originally Posted by aaron0377 View Post
    She got mad and asked why? and she said things where fine as friends and we where close friends and maybe I'll talk to her again. When we where together she hugged me when I seen her we flirted our asses off and talked about her,her life not to much about her bf, only that he might have cheated on her or whatever,. She hugged me like 2 times goodbye the day I left usually for 10+ sec's..
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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    So what should I do? Just leave it there or say something?

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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    Say nothing. Dont bring up her boyfriend up in conversations, if she does pretend like you heard nothing. However, use small dosage of Kino and just have fun with her. Let the physical attraction do the talking. If she wants to be more than friends, in respect to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, then let her be the driver not you.

    Quote Originally Posted by aaron0377 View Post
    So what should I do? Just leave it there or say something?
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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    Ok, I got you just leave it and see what happens. Don't pursue her, let her pursue me. Thanks Man!

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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    To be blunt it was entirely the wrong move.

    You should have approached it like you were approaching a women in a bar you had never met before.

    Rebuild the attraction, build up sexual Tension etc etc.

    NEVER over compliment a women.

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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    Yeah just be playful..and have fun, girls will want to be with the guy the is the sources of their excitement. The guy that makes them feel alive! Having other girls in your life is a good idea, don't make her believe that your life depends on her. Stop paying attention to that girl...and just go out and have fun with other girls, and once she realizes that you are beyond her she will come around. I wouldn't care if a girl comes around or not...I have options!

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    Default Re: I told a girl I dont wan't to be just friends.

    I have to agree with that comment.


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