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Thread: I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

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    Sean Flaherty is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

    Hello all, I posted a previous question but on the wrong forum , I'll replace it here

    I am not sure about this girl, my best guess is she likes me, I don't know what to do... I feel like if I don't approach it will be awkward if I see her around again.

    Here I will list some of the situation:
    One time, I was chilling by myself by the classroom door waiting for the bell to ring, and she walks up to me like if she was going to say something

    I tried saying "hi" and tried making eye contact, but she looked down and then moved her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor.

    2. I was in lunch before and I caught her "spying" one me, I looked backed and stared back we locked eyes at each other for a good couple seconds.

    3. Before class ends, I usually stand by the door waiting by the bell. She would always try to stand next to me, and would play with her phone and fix her hair, usually it was just the two of us standing, I never grew the balls to say anything there.

    4. I was talking to one of buds, and she bumps my elbow on purpose , at the time the only line I can throw was "Srry, I didn't notice you there"

    The problem here is, I'm not sure if it was a good idea but I tried to contact her over Facebook, she ignored me and the friend request (which was never denied) I know she ignored it because she was updating here stats for the time being, I honestly think she thinks I am shy and socially awkward or something, I'm new to the school as well and I wasn't to comfortable talking to anyone :-/

    Any help would be useful, they told me before I had to prove I grew some balls, but is that really it?

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    pua_wannabe is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

    Dude you need to become comfortable talking to everyone after that talking to girls is no big deal trust me! You need to show some confidence and charisma women love those traits in a man, its obious she is shy too so work in there hammer away those walls and find that social butterfly. Avoid facebook unless you talk to her in person first. A simple and confident "Hi, how are you" with a smile, eye contact and relaxed body language will work wonders!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Sean Flaherty is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

    gosh all this is making me feel like an AFC

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    Default Re: I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

    All I want to add is that you need to remember you only have one life to live and you have nothing to lose.

    You won't have remorse if you just go talk to her and try. You will have remorse if you do nothing. Before you do, though, make sure to read a maximum of threads on the forum to get the right Mindset and some seduction basics.

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    Sean Flaherty is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

    These passing weeks in school, I always see her when I'm walking to my classes. We always make eye contact with each other, I was told to keep looking until she looks away, like on thursday before I was leaving, she parked right next to me and I looked at her and she just looked away quickly.

    I've been wanting to approach but I if I do it'll be kinda weird because we always get like 5 minutes of transition time then I'll be late to class, or I could approach after school.

    But's is like dammmmmmmmmmmmmmm how can I approach

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    Default Re: I feel like I messed up already, what can I do to fix it?

    I approached a girl once worst approach ever!!! but it was also my first attempt at approaching. I was sooooo nervous and could barely talk. Earlier that day I was reading about pick up lines, I said o what the hell! So I go up to this girl and say "Excuse me...you look stunning today" I studdered every word and could barely keep eye contact. She was extremely nice about the whole thing...especially the part about her being in engaged hahaha. I excused myself as I walk away I had the biggest smile and a hella of a story! I didnt give in to my fear, thats when I realized that "O'well" was soooo much better than a "what if". Since then everytime I approach I think about that story and get a huge smile on my face, every ounce of fear is gone. I didnt focus on how it turned out I focused on the fact that I left my comfort zone and it felt so damn good!!! I hope this helps you
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-15-2012 at 07:16 PM. Reason: grammar
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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