There is a girl I work with that goes away to school currently (I work with her in summers and winter) she tells another girl that we work with EVERYTHING; like most girls do. The thing is that she is a bit younger than me. I am 21 she is 18 and the place we work at is pretty professional and I would probably be looked down upon if word spread I had sex with her, hooked up with her, tried to hook up or have sex with her but failed.....the list could go on. Most likely they would think I took advantage of her because of drinking. I am going to visit the college she goes to in about two weeks.
So basically I can not decide if it is worth going for or not. I do like the girl and think she is attractive....I'm not in love or anything but it would be awesome to get closer to her or to get some action from her.
Is there a surefire way to keep this quiet? Like a magic word to say to this girl so that she doesn't spread the word? I would think that she wouldn't want it spread around work as much as me but then again she is only there in winter and summer and might not even know that her best friend is spreading the word around the work place, or like a typical girl she'll feel like she HAS to tell her bestfriend everything.