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    Default Making things work with a co-worker

    There is a girl I work with that goes away to school currently (I work with her in summers and winter) she tells another girl that we work with EVERYTHING; like most girls do. The thing is that she is a bit younger than me. I am 21 she is 18 and the place we work at is pretty professional and I would probably be looked down upon if word spread I had sex with her, hooked up with her, tried to hook up or have sex with her but failed.....the list could go on. Most likely they would think I took advantage of her because of drinking. I am going to visit the college she goes to in about two weeks.

    So basically I can not decide if it is worth going for or not. I do like the girl and think she is attractive....I'm not in love or anything but it would be awesome to get closer to her or to get some action from her.

    Is there a surefire way to keep this quiet? Like a magic word to say to this girl so that she doesn't spread the word? I would think that she wouldn't want it spread around work as much as me but then again she is only there in winter and summer and might not even know that her best friend is spreading the word around the work place, or like a typical girl she'll feel like she HAS to tell her bestfriend everything.

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    Default Re: Making things work with a co-worker

    Quote Originally Posted by freestylpolaris View Post
    There is a girl I work with that goes away to school currently (I work with her in summers and winter) she tells another girl that we work with EVERYTHING; like most girls do. The thing is that she is a bit younger than me. I am 21 she is 18 and the place we work at is pretty professional and I would probably be looked down upon if word spread I had sex with her, hooked up with her, tried to hook up or have sex with her but failed.....the list could go on. Most likely they would think I took advantage of her because of drinking. I am going to visit the college she goes to in about two weeks.

    So basically I can not decide if it is worth going for or not. I do like the girl and think she is attractive....I'm not in love or anything but it would be awesome to get closer to her or to get some action from her.

    Is there a surefire way to keep this quiet? Like a magic word to say to this girl so that she doesn't spread the word? I would think that she wouldn't want it spread around work as much as me but then again she is only there in winter and summer and might not even know that her best friend is spreading the word around the work place, or like a typical girl she'll feel like she HAS to tell her bestfriend everything.
    As far as approach, you're overthinking it...just go up and start gaming her. But I personally would not recommend getting it on with someone you work with.

    I used to date a chick I worked with and when it went sour she made it hell for me to work there by making up rumours that I got her pregnant and that I cheated on her. Pretty much I quit a week after we broke up...not fun. But since you're only there for winter/summer it might not be as bad.

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    Default Re: Making things work with a co-worker

    Yeah she will only be there for xmas break which is like a month and the summer which at that point I won't be working there anymore anyways most likely since I will be a college graduate. Found out today that one of her texts to a co-worker said "he and I are talking, jealous?" Always a good sign. Especially since the co-worker has a boyfriend and most likely wouldn't be jealous. Sounds like she is just trying to show off we are talking.

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    Default Re: Making things work with a co-worker

    Quote Originally Posted by freestylpolaris View Post
    Yeah she will only be there for xmas break which is like a month and the summer which at that point I won't be working there anymore anyways most likely since I will be a college graduate. Found out today that one of her texts to a co-worker said "he and I are talking, jealous?" Always a good sign. Especially since the co-worker has a boyfriend and most likely wouldn't be jealous. Sounds like she is just trying to show off we are talking.
    Honestly speaking, and I hate myself for saying this but YOLO...you only live once. So take a chance, high risk = high reward ....now go and get your reward bud!

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    Default Re: Making things work with a co-worker

    Yeah she's a hottie for sure. I'll just let the alcohol take me where it takes me hahaha

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    Default Re: Making things work with a co-worker

    Quote Originally Posted by freestylpolaris View Post
    Yeah she's a hottie for sure. I'll just let the alcohol take me where it takes me hahaha
    I wouldn't drink....at least not much, a clear head helps you game better. I go to clubs sober 7/10 times and I still have a blast whether I'm drunk or not

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    Default Re: Making things work with a co-worker

    She will be drunk too and she's easy game my man. Either way we'll see what happens; it's hard to stay sober when visiting a college. Any girl younger than me has always been that way; easy game. Not to mention this girl is showing huge signs of interest, or at least interest of messing around.


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