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Thread: The girl im sleeping with wants to stay "casual"

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    Default The girl im sleeping with wants to stay "casual"

    So theres a girl that ive been sleeping with for a couple months who doesn't want a relationship which she said from the start she wanted to keep it casual.
    me personally i am growing to like her more n more and i think she likes me otherwise we wouldnt still be having sex.
    today i mentioned going on date and she turnt around and said "i thought that we were keeping it casual?"
    i cant see any reason why she would not want a relationship with me.
    id really like to have something with her but i dont know how im going to get it.
    any bits of advice would a real help

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    Default Re: The girl im sleeping with wants to stay "casual"

    first off dont suggest going on a date, instead just say coffee or grab some food. As long as you keep it casual you might not hit that same barrier, when you say lets go on a date she will think your being serious. Just my opinion

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    Default Re: The girl im sleeping with wants to stay "casual"

    Ive been in this same situation for awhile now. Unfortunatly ill be honest.... not a whole lot you can do. You can either stay in the situation as it is for awhile and see where it goes, or get out of it completly.

    If i were you id keep doing what your doing, but dont try to push it further right now. This is something she has to want. You do this by maybe pulling back some, be a little harder to get. Hopefully shell see what shes missing, see what a great guy you really are, and hopefully she'll come around.

    In the mean time when your not with her focus on meeting other girls as well, this will help you keep feelings for her at bay, and will make you more attracted to you.

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    Default Re: The girl im sleeping with wants to stay "casual"

    I keep telling you guys, choosing to be in a relationship is a woman's domain. They ask you directly or indirectly to be in one. If a guy wants to be in a relationship with a woman who clearly doesnt that will scare her because she sees the guy as a 'nice guy' and he is getting too clingy.

    dasher, why do you want to be in a relationship so bad? Some would say you are in the perfect situation: No responsibilities; You can come and go as you please; you can meet and greet other women; You are free of the unwarranted nags and emotional torture. Sounds like heaven to me.
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    Default Re: The girl im sleeping with wants to stay "casual"

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    I keep telling you guys, choosing to be in a relationship is a woman's domain. They ask you directly or indirectly to be in one. If a guy wants to be in a relationship with a woman who clearly doesnt that will scare her because she sees the guy as a 'nice guy' and he is getting too clingy.

    dasher, why do you want to be in a relationship so bad? Some would say you are in the perfect situation: No responsibilities; You can come and go as you please; you can meet and greet other women; You are free of the unwarranted nags and emotional torture. Sounds like heaven to me.
    The man has a point, this also means you dont end up looking like a sucker or "if" you do and up dating its not a one sided relationship.


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