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    Default Re: She likes me BUT...

    thanks Autismus

    that is good material
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    This ^ is right. It's cat-string theory. Offer yourself to a girl and she'll lose interest, take yourself away and she'll lose interest, make it clear that she is sooo close to having you and she will pursue you.

    Depending on the circumstance, yes, telling a girl that you want to take things to the next level can be a dhv - only if (a) you've already f-closed, and (b) you are already pretty much at the next level (going on dates, meeting eachother friends or family, taking little weekend trips together)

    If she is over 25... if she is an "iNvestor" in Pandoras Box... if she both (a) and (b) ^ above are happening... if she is very into you (lights up - with happiness, not just excitement when you enter a room)... then bringing up the "take it to the next level" talk will show high value because it shows you are a man who has invested in her and are looking for a more meaningful realtionship with her.

    If she is under 22 yo... if she is a "Tester" in Pandoras Box... if you have not f-closed and if you don't do a lot of "relatioshippy" things... if she doesn't react immediately (or only with excitement) when you enter a room... then bringing up the "take it to the next level" talk will dlv because it will imply that - even without extensive investment and qualification - she is your best option.

    These are fairly generalized tendencies, but pretty consistent shades of grey.
    Hello Autismus,

    Thank you and i am glad for your response as you studied the Pandora's box system as i have altho i am still learning by going out there. To give you some more clarity, she is 27 and her personality type is an NDR confirming your point as being an iNvestor. She was in a 5 year relationship but it ended badly. She has been single going 2-3 years now and along the way, she met me.

    About the part in DHV, i haven't f-closed on her but we definitely did b.) you are already pretty much at the next level (going on dates, meeting each other friends or family, taking little weekend trips together) well except weekend trips as school and work are in the way lol.

    With my initial post above, any advise from here?

    Will learn more about the Cat String Theory.

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    were is an articule or thread suggesting ways to apply String Theory and what it is, i know what it is and how to use it but would deffently invest some time into it and if i Field Test it more and it works well i will recommend it.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    I think you and I are in similar boats Darren, I have an NDR that said "I like to go on dates and stuff, I just don't want a relationship" - which I took to mean, going out and having a good time and farking without officially being a couple, but which I guess now she meant as getting the company and emotional support of a relationship without putting out. lol

    I actually just called her out on it tonight - FR here

    But probably the most frustrating thing about a Denier is telling whether she actually wants to fark (but is falsely denying it) or if she actually doesn't want to fark (and is accurately denying it) I think there's a few of us on here that are having trouble with getting strung along...

    I'd say read around a bit more on anti-friendzone techniques and then formulate a plan that works to your strengths and makes sense in your situation
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    Default Re: She likes me BUT...

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    I think you and I are in similar boats Darren, I have an NDR that said "I like to go on dates and stuff, I just don't want a relationship" - which I took to mean, going out and having a good time and farking without officially being a couple, but which I guess now she meant as getting the company and emotional support of a relationship without putting out. lol

    I actually just called her out on it tonight - FR here

    But probably the most frustrating thing about a Denier is telling whether she actually wants to fark (but is falsely denying it) or if she actually doesn't want to fark (and is accurately denying it) I think there's a few of us on here that are having trouble with getting strung along...

    I'd say read around a bit more on anti-friendzone techniques and then formulate a plan that works to your strengths and makes sense in your situation
    Hello Autismus,

    Preach brother, you are right about the "doesn't want to put out but wants to benefit otherwise" part. Right now i'm freezing her and will talk to her once every 2-3 weeks. I think she got too comfortable knowing that i am always around (took classes together so i didn't have a choice) hence the freeze solution. She is also comfortable because in her mind, there is no other woman in the picture otherwise she would have started to be aggressive for my attention and time. I'm currently reading up on what to do while you are freezing to prevent weak moments from happening.

    The journals you are posting, is this the same NDR chic you are dealing with? did you f-closed and how did you do it? and what worked for you in general being with an NDR? Cheers!


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