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    Whatsaname is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Pre-game knowledge messup

    So I met this girl who was real awesome(gf material) but I really messed things up, I came across as way too needy and gave her too much power/came across as the "good guy" who was going too chase.

    Now iv only started learning pua stuff in the last week, kinda wishing I had known everything I do now earlier though.


    The real question it possible too turn things around and or will Freezing Her Out then trying to start fresh work/help.

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Pre-game knowledge messup

    be a friend flirt and have fun. invite her to something fun put pictures of you and all your friends on fb for her to see. just be a very fun guy you should see a change in her in a few weeks
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Pre-game knowledge messup

    Quote Originally Posted by Whatsaname View Post
    So I met this girl who was real awesome(gf material) but I really messed things up, I came across as way too needy and gave her too much power/came across as the "good guy" who was going too chase.

    Now iv only started learning pua stuff in the last week, kinda wishing I had known everything I do now earlier though.


    The real question it possible too turn things around and or will freezing her out then trying to start fresh work/help.

    Any suggestions?
    Yes you can turn it around...and in fact that could add mystery. Instead of freezing out just try coming at her from a different angle oe do a Freeze Out after you have well and truly impressed her:
    option 1) as hopeful said be the fun guy
    option 2) ask her some sexually ambigous questions via text like 'so you're at home huh? What are you wearing? What color underwear are you wearing?' Be absolutely confident and it doesn't matter if she doesn't answer - it will get her thinking. You could also be cheeky in a response to her too to state your bold confidence. Her 'what are you doing?' You 'Im driving over to your place with a bottle of wine'. Her 'what are you doing?' You 'Im imagining us kissing passionately underneath a full moon'. End it with a wink symbol so its ambiguous you are being sarcastic or real. That sort of thing will put her on the back foot, is not something a AFC would so openly say and will get her heart racing.
    option 3) Get her answering questions and trap her to say some soppy female AFC crap so you are equalised e.g. 'Do you have any fluffy toys or teddy bears on your bed?' 'Do you still keep love letters from ex boyfriends?' 'What is your perfect Valentines?' 'Describe your perfect man' 'Do you still keep your barbie dolls?'. If you ask a question like 'describe your perfect man' she may even say a few stereotype things like 'he must be honest, caring, romantic' which then qualifies your AFC awkwardness. You have already proved those attributes to her, had her accept them and then you can concentrate on being the 'bad boy'. By being a bad boy you might consider some mild teasing but don't do a 360 degree turn around too quick. Reveal it slowly as a hidden quantity to yourself. There's actually nothing wrong with being a nice guy...A lot of you would be suprised at how nice and romantic I am with women but I am also cheeky and super confident in how I pull it off and I dont reveal everything straight away. Girls don't obviously completely dislike 'nice guys'...they dislike nervous guys who spill out all they have in one go. Play it like Poker. 'Know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to turn and walk away'.

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    Default Re: Pre-game knowledge messup

    Well in previous texts she wasnt afraid too be bluntly sexual so saying something ambiguous might work, ill try and also work that different angle via text till I can see her in person, I just have to not come on too strong and leave some intrigue. Im also going to wait for her too text me before I pop a question as one of my downfalls has been that iv initiated way too many conversations


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