Actually I have another question. Of course anyone else can chime in - all help is appreciated.
Last weekend, she moved into her own apartment. She didn't tell me if she left her boyfriend of 4 years or not. She told me she was happy and that she liked her new place, so I'm guessing she's still on the right path (the path that will lead her to me!). My feeling is that it's going to take a few more weeks, even probably two or three months before she feels like she's "over him" enough to start a new relationship.
I know I have to be her rock, I have to be fun and playful, I have to be alpha and confident, I have to be flirty AND be empathetic to her situation (by the way, how can I translate empathy in a email? I have no clue!), etc.
Basically, I have to be PERFECT. I have been pretty solid so far but yesterday we had our 1st misunderstanding and I saved my as$ at the last minute... but it made me realize that if this situation really stays like this for months... it will be impossible to avoid any kind of mistake on my part. I can't read her mind. At one point I will be flirty when she'll need Comfort
or whatever. Do you get what I'm saying? How does normal people deal with all this stress?
I just wish there was a way to fastforward time or a super-elaborated plan for mistake-free email convos!
Being perfect is just something I know I won't be able to pull off forever I guess. hehe
That being said, my Oneitis is a beautiful illness so far. I don't want to complain too much!